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Approaching my 60th birthday has me reflecting on the curious phenomenon of how we experience these personal milestones. Why do we grant ourselves permission to be selfish and indulgent on just one day of the year? More importantly, why do we burden these celebrations with impossible expectations that often lead to disappointment?
I'm sharing a personal reading from my book about a previous birthday when I caught myself keeping score of how others celebrated me - noting my husband's funny card but mentally deducting points for "no flowers," appreciating the fire he made but feeling let down when I discovered he hadn't filled the humidifier. Throughout that day, I tallied over 200 social media birthday wishes, most from people I barely knew, while simultaneously noting who hadn't yet acknowledged my special day.
This birthday scorekeeper lives in many of us, constantly evaluating external validation rather than focusing on internal worth. The profound question emerges: why do we set such high bars for how others should celebrate us while simultaneously setting such low standards for how we celebrate ourselves? What would change if we approached every day with the same level of self-honor that we expect on our birthdays?
As I turn 60, I'm carrying forward this wisdom – treating each day as an opportunity to celebrate being alive, to honor my journey, and to appreciate the gift of growing older. I'm deeply grateful for you, my listeners, who join me in these reflections and share how my stories resonate with your own experiences. This connection is perhaps the most meaningful birthday gift of all, and it's one I cherish every day, not just once a year.

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