Ep. 77- The Last Hug at 12: From Foster Care and Betrayal to Homelessness and Hope with Niccole Nelson
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In this episode of the More Than Your Age podcast, Nicole Nelson shares her profound journey from a tumultuous childhood marked by her mother's addiction and her experiences in foster care, to finding her identity and strength as an adult. She discusses the challenges of being adopted into a family that treated her as a business rather than a loved one, her eventual reunion with her mother, and the impact of her early life on her relationships. Nicole also reflects on her transition to motherhood, the struggles of homelessness, and how her faith has played a crucial role in her resilience and personal growth. In this conversation, Niccole Nelson shares her journey of overcoming life's challenges through faith, resilience, and self-discovery. She discusses her experiences with trauma, motherhood, and the importance of trusting oneself. Niccole emphasizes the significance of joy as a choice and the power of vulnerability in healing. She also highlights her transition from a stable job to pursuing her passion for helping others through coaching and writing, encouraging women to trust themselves and break free from limiting beliefs.
Takeaways
-Nicole's early life was marked by her mother's addiction.
-She experienced a significant identity crisis after being placed in foster care.
-Adoption did not equate to feeling loved in her new family.
-Nicole's reunion with her mother was a pivotal moment in her life.
-Childhood trauma influenced her adult relationships and self-worth.
-Nicole's journey included struggles with homelessness and financial instability.
-Faith became a cornerstone of her resilience and personal growth.
-Control over her life was an illusion, as circumstances often dictated her path.
-Nicole's story is one of overcoming adversity and finding strength in vulnerability. God has a plan for your life, even when you resist it.
-Joy is a choice that requires daily commitment.
-Healing requires vulnerability and honesty about your experiences.
-Trust and self-belief are crucial for overcoming obstacles.
-Your past does not define your future; you can change your narrative.
-Finding an anchor in faith can provide strength during tough times.
-It's important to forgive yourself and rebuild trust after trauma.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Early Life Challenges
02:49 Foster Care Experience and Identity Crisis
05:44 Adoption and Family Dynamics
08:52 Reunion with Biological Mother
11:44 Impact of Childhood on Adult Relationships
16:45 Transition to Adulthood and Motherhood
21:29 Struggles with Homelessness and Control
26:27 Finding Faith and Resilience
29:11 Navigating Life's Challenges and Divine Guidance
35:43 Finding Strength in Faith During Hard Times
46:01 Embracing Change: From Job to Purpose
55:35 Empowering Women: Trusting Yourself and Overcoming Limitations
Connect with Niccole
Instagram: @niccolenelson
YouTube: @niccolenelson
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