#1176 - Competition and Kids: A Fresh Perspective
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Pink lunch boxes, parenting confessions, and some truly terrible (but hilarious) kid jokes—this episode has it all! Justin shares a surprising "mea culpa" about a parenting stance he might have been too firm on, while Kylie opens up about their daughter's tough transition back to school and how they’re helping her navigate the overwhelm. Plus, a heartfelt listener shoutout and a laugh-out-loud joke about ADHD. Tune in for relatable parenting moments, thoughtful insights, and a few good giggles!
Key Insights:
- Teen overwhelm requires patient, curious exploration
- Using movies like Inside Out 2 can help explain emotions
- Competition's impact depends on context and age
- Sometimes feeling competent matters more than winning
- Parents can and should revise their positions
- The way we process experiences matters more than the experiences themselves
- School transitions create multiple layers of challenge
- Emotion coaching requires timing and patience
Quote of the Episode: "It's not about doing therapy, it's just about helping her to feel seen, heard, and valued so that you can move to a productive resolution."
Resources Mentioned:
- Inside Out 2 movie
- 9 Ways to a Resilient Child book
- 9 Ways to a Resilient Child [The Course]
- Happy Families
Action Steps for Parents:
- Help children identify and understand their emotions before seeking solutions
- Use relatable metaphors (like movies) to discuss complex feelings
- Reconsider whether protecting children from competition might limit growth opportunities
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