Multi-Award Winning, authentic and beautifully edited. Grab your headphones and get ready to binge! The female version of BDE, Big Lash Energy isn't just a podcast- it's a lifestyle, a mindset, a vibe! Your host, Jayna Marie, has been a makeup artist beautifying brides and celebrities for the past 20 years. It's safe to say, she's mastered the art of girl talk. Listen in as she spills the tequila on what she's learned from her own messy life. She talks divorce, adoption as a single mom, craz ...
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#134 One Year Mamaversary: "She Calls You Mom"
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Arzo gives Jayna a "Mom Report Card" and the two recap their favorite moments from their first year as a Mama / daughter duo. What grades did the new mom get when it came to discipline, leading by example, housecleaning, cooking, laundry and helping with homework? Listen to find out! One thing's for sure, Arzo always says it like it is! (SPOILER AL…
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#133 "Are You My Father?" Is NOT A Good Conversation Starter
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Last week, Jayna discovered a 20 year old email that was the last correspondence she had with her biological father. Now, she's on a search to find the man she calls Frank. She's trying everything from hacking into highschool email accounts and sifting through facebook profiles, to tracking down long lost relatives. Whether you’ve walked a similar …
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#132 Did You Say "Daddy Issues"? One For The Ladies With BAD DADS!
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Is your dad to blame for your bad track record with men? Jayna was a textbook example of what it looked like to have "daddy issues". Now, she's given the term some thought and decided that it's TRASH. This episode is a must listen for anyone whose father (or father figure) was less than ideal OR anyone planning on raising a daughter. We discuss how…
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#131 My Teen's Giving Haters The Middle Finger (And I Approve!)
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Sometimes, all you need is for one person to believe in your potential in order to turn your whole world around. Before Arzo moved in with Jayna, the odds were stacked against her. A hard upbringing left her unable to see a future for herself. Her family thought she would end up on the streets and even she told her high school principal that in 5 y…
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#130 Learn Black Cat Energy RIGHT MEOW....Or Regret It Later!
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Are you doing the MOST for the man in your life and getting the LEAST in return? If you're ready to start being treated how you deserve, then stop what you're doing and press play like....YESTERDAY. Black Cat Energy is a total game changer. Its a mindset shift you can make to start seeing results RIGHT AWAY. In this episode, Jayna gives examples of…
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#129 Dating Ghost Stories Part 2: But Did You DIE?
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This is a dating ghost story...with a twist! In Part 2 of this spooky series, Jayna travels all the way to the Dominican Republic to meet her wannabe prince charming...then POOF!! Who Knew!? In this episode, our host shares her own haunting experience as well as a story submitted by a BLE Bestie. October might mark the beginning of spooky season, b…
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#128 Dating Ghost Stories: The One Where He Comes Back From The Dead!
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Have you ever been ghosted? Even better yet, have you ever been ZOMBIED? *cue scary music* What's so terrifying about simply saying "thanks but no thanks?" In this episode, Jayna shares her own haunting experience as well as stories submitted by BLE Besties. October marks the beginning of spooky season, but there's nothing scarier than or hosts dat…
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#127 Five Things Your Makeup Artist REALLY Wants You To Know
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Have you ever had a couple margaritas then started saying what you REALLY thought? After 20 years of doing hair and makeup, Jayna is finally getting some stuff off her chest! In this weeks episode, she's giving REAL answers to questions like "Should I tip my makeup artist?" as well as how to navigate vendor review pages, manage expectations and tak…
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#126 The Most Embarrassing Business Mistake I've Ever Made!
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Jayna messed up BIG TIME when she first started her business- and it almost derailed her success! Now, it's her 20th anniversary of being an entrepreneur, so she's looking back and sharing that very costly lesson with YOU. (Consider it Marketing 101 but without the expense of business school!) If you're an entrepreneur, small business owner, or som…
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#125 A Crazy Wedding Story: Who Invited The Gunman?!
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SPECIAL EDITION: Jayna tells her unbelievable wedding day story in an interview first aired on "What Was That Like", a podcast hosted by Scott Johnson As a professional makeup artist who'd worked in the wedding industry for over a decade, Jayna thought she was ready for ANYTHING on her big day. Unfortunately, no one could have predicted THIS....cue…
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#124 Masturbation 101: Sex With The One I Love The Most
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WARNING: Adult Content We’re talking about self love, ladies! Get ready for a juicy, unapologetic conversation all about you and your pleasure. Yup....this ones all about masturbation! In this episode, Jayna explains the health benefits of cumming, 4 tips on how to improve your solo sex, a history of sex toys and fun facts about your clitoris. (phe…
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#123 If Wanting Good Sex Makes Me A Slut, Why Did God Give Me A G-Spot?
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Ever felt like everyone's enjoying sex but you? In her 20's, Jayna hated every minute of it. At the time, sex felt like an obligation, not something she was really into. Inexperience, selfish lovers and a guilty conscience meant orgasms were few and far between and as a Christian, she was afraid to admit she wanted more or better sex for fear that …
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#122 When A Multi-Millionaire Tells You To Manifest *eye roll*
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One for the spiritual besties! A surprising take on prayer, manifestation and getting what you want from the universe. CAUTION: Listening may cause an increased sense of purpose and a sudden urge to love on the people around you. In this episode, Jayna shares the message that shifted the way she viewed her relationship to God, how she lived and how…
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#121 We Lied To You: The Story We Were Too Afraid To Tell
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Jayna and Arzo shared their story in the past, but in order to protect themselves, they kept out the ugly parts. Today, you're finally going to hear the real truth- no matter how uncomfortable it might be. If you've been following along with their story so far, you might find these details surprising and possibly even hard to hear. In this inspirin…
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#120 A Wild Ride: An Uber Driver Tells Her Crazy Date Story!
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"Have you seen Rodney?" An unbelievable, unscripted true story of a Tinder date gone wrong as told by Jayna's Uber driver! Ever have a good heart to heart with a complete stranger? In this episode, you're riding "Passenger Princess" alongside Jayna on the way to Podcast Movement in Washington DC. The drive itself is smooth...it's the story that's g…
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You'll never believe what Jayna's done for these girls! Is she a stylist? Or a brides personal assistant? Sometimes, its hard to tell the difference. Everyone knows that brides are demanding, but Jayna never imagined she'd be flossing teeth, scrubbing feet or even wiping butts. If you think being a wedding makeup artist is all just lipstick and con…
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#118 You *Should Be* Scared to Trust Again! How To Guard Your Heart
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If you're a big-hearted over-giver who's been hurt one too many times (by lovers, friends, or family) then this one's for you! It can be scary letting people close again after experiencing heartbreak and disappointment. If you're someone who loves big, then you've got even more to lose. In this episode, Jayna shares 3 questions you should ask befor…
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#117 Divorcing a FRIEND: Why Does It Hurt More Than Losing A Man?
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Have you ever had to divorce a FRIEND? ...it's the worst! In fact, in a recent poll, 90% of Jayna's instagram fam voted that losing a bestie hurt MORE than losing a romantic partner. (Hey, good friends are hard to find!) In this episode, Jayna shares 3 stories of times when her friendships turned from sweet to sour and what she learned from the pai…
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#116 Jayna's Favourite Things: Summer Edition! Must-Haves In Beauty, Fashion And Gadgets!
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Jayna shares her faves when it comes to skincare, scents, accessories, swimwear and even some high tech gadgets! A carefully curated list of things that will make your summer even sweeter. Move over, Oprah, there's a new list in town! IN THIS EPISODE: -Josie Maran Body Butter in Topless Tangerine -DeLonghi Magnifica Evo -Birkenstocks (Arizona EVA) …
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#115 Big Sis Advice: You Asked About Sex, Dating Apps and Living Your BEST Life!
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A big sister tells it like it is based on her life experiences and doesn't sugar coat or shy away from the facts. In this episode, Jayna does just that. She's answering real questions from her BLE besties and she's not holding back! She may not know all the answers, but she'll happily share her opinion with your best interests at heart. Come join t…
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#114 You'll Never BELIEVE What This Guy Did To Get Jayna's Attention!
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It's the story Jayna's parents LOVE to tell when someone new comes over for dinner. An unbelievable tale of the time an online mystery man went to extremes to win their daughters affection. A story so wild, it's left the family shaking their heads for the past 23 years. No re-telling would be complete without hearing somebody say "I thought Jayna w…
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#113 Besties Talk Beauty Part 2: Makeup Tips From The Best In The Biz!
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The houseparty’s still bumping and Jayna can’t WAIT to introduce you to two more of her special guests. Gurpreet (Lash Out Studio) and Sukhi (Princess Studios) are here to talk makeup and they’re not holding back! Listen in as each woman dishes on what it’s like being a makeup artist, their beauty product must haves and which ones they think are ov…
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#112 Besties Talk Beauty: Makeup Tips From The Best In The Biz!
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Its a houseparty full of talented makeup artists, and you're invited! Last week, Jayna said she didn't see any women in her industry as competition- she wants everyone to win! In this episode, she's putting her money where her mouth is. To prove it, she shines the spotlight on some of Vancouvers most talented artists. Listen in as each woman dishes…
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#111 Are You A Girls Girl?? ...Listen NOW To Find Out!
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What 4 things do "Girls Girls" do differently? If you're curious, then listen up! This isn't just a hot new catch phrase on tiktok - its a way of living and it's so *VERY* B.L.E. Ever since Betty & Veronica, we've put the spotlight on cat fights. In this episode, Jayna shares some fun and relatable stories about what it looks like when female relat…
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#110 What *REALLY* Happened In Vegas- The Worst Trip YET!
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When Jayna invited her girls to join her for a last minute Vegas trip, she had NO IDEA it would end up like this! What in the WORLD would have our usually calm and collected host wanting to throw hands!? ...and on a BOUNCER, no less! This episode is a wild story of a girls trip gone wrong, but in true BLE fashion, it will leave you feeling inspired…
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#109 HBD BLE! Playing “Would You Rather?” On The Streets Of Las Vegas, Baby!
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(Warning: Adult content!) It's BLE'S second birthday and we're celebrating by roaming the streets of Las Vegas and playing "Would you rather...?" with strangers! This episode is all about having a good time...and by the sounds of the rasp in Jayna's voice, she's been having a blast! Wait till you hear the answers when we ask men "Would you rather n…
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#108 Are You At Your Limit Too? 4 Tips + A Guided Meditation For A Little Woo Woo!
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Are you feeling stressed? Overworked? Overwhelmed? ....You're not alone! Unfortunately, running away to a deserted island with man butlers in speedos isn't always an option. That's why Jayna is sharing 4 of the things she does to keep her sh*t together amidst an overpacked schedule and minimal free time. If you find yourself struggling to find peac…
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#107 Bad Date Story: My High School Teacher!
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Having a crush on one of your teachers is pretty common...but what about when your teacher has a crush on YOU? In this episode, Jayna gets asked out on a date by none other than Mr. Simpson- her highschool drama teacher! Never one to shy away from doing anything that could make a good story, she says yes and the rest is ...well...fabulous content f…
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#106 The Girl Who Never Had A Bed Part 3: Now We’re HERE!
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Get ready to feel all the warm and fuzzies! If you listened to episodes 103 + 104 then this one is a MUST! A heartwarming finale to the story that’s had everyone talking (and bawling!). Press play to hear how Arzo likes her new bedroom, what awkward things happen when Jayna’s parents come to visit (Did Jayna catch Arzo in the shower with a BOY?) an…
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#105 Are You Turning Into Your Mother Too?! Special Guest: Jayna's Mom!
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This week, our host finally sits down to talk with the woman one of our BLE besties called a "National Treasure". Never one to shy away from a chance to speak her piece, Jayna's mom, Wendy, sits down to the mic with her notebook FULL of thoughts. (It's almost like she'd been waiting for her chance to vent for the past 41 years!) Together, the mothe…
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#104 The Girl Who Never Had A Bed Part 2: Started From the Bottom
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Was Jayna able to give Arzo the surprise of a lifetime or did she have to come up with another plan? This is the second half of an inspiring, heart warming story that you DO NOT want to miss! It's all about dreaming big, trusting Gods plan and the beauty that can come from choosing your own family. Jayna and Arzo have a very unique story...At 41, J…
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#103 The Girl Who Never Had A Bed- Part 1
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It's not often you meet a 16 year old who's never slept in a bed. Arzo has lived a very difficult life. 8 months ago, she needed a place to stay, so Jayna invited her into her home. As a temporary option, she offered her pull out couch, then learned that that's how Arzo had been sleeping her whole life. On a couch, in the living room. Now, Jayna's …
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#102 Are a Few Extra Pounds Stopping YOU? Come Along For A Boudoir Shoot!
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“I’d love to, but first I need to lose 10 pounds.” We hear it all the time! If you’ve ever caught yourself putting your best life on hold for a mythical number on a scale then you’ll find this episode super relatable. This week, you’re coming along as Jayna does a super steamy boudoir photoshoot with the wonderful Jennifer Williams, despite feeling…
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#101 Was This Threesome Sexy or Messy? You Decide!
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WARNING: Adult Content! Has your partner ever told you they wanted a threesome? Maybe you want one but are afraid to ask? In this weeks episode, Jayna continues on her quest to find a #3 for the man who told her the secret to keeping him loyal was one menage a trois a year. Who would have thought finding someone to join in on their sexy time would …
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#100 It’s A Party! Celebrating 100 With BLE’s Greatest Hits and Listener Picks!
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Pop the Champagne!! In this episode, we’re celebrating 100 episodes of BLE and Jayna’s invited some of her besties to share what their favorite moments have been so far. She’s joined by Rikki, Tim and Arzo, as well as Sarah from the “For Better or For Worse Almost Killed Her” trilogy. It’s a star studded 43 minutes! If you’re an OG bestie, this wil…
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#99 Is it Wrong to Admit you REALLY Want to Win? What Happened With Jayna's Ambie Award Nomination?!
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Come with Jayna to Los Angeles for her first ever “vlog style” episode…it’s a rollercoaster of emotions! Woohoo!! Big Lash Energy was nominated for an Ambie for "Best Relationship or Wellness Podcast" ...its a major honour! In fact, it's such a big deal, Jayna just had to bring you with her! For the first time ever, our host steps away from her scr…
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#98 The #1 Way To Tell He’s ACTUALLY Into You…and WTF Is Breadcrumbing?
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Have you been a victim of breadcrumbing? If you’re not sure what it is, listen up! This form of manipulation is a serious time suck and can make dating super confusing. In this episode, we talk about how to tell if the guys DMing you are in it for the long haul or just an ego boost. Jayna shares the story of her very first crush (hey, Mehalee!), an…
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#97 Ever Felt So Ugly You Could Cry?...So Have I.
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Have you ever been disgusted by the reflection looking back at you? Are there days when you feel unworthy of love because you no longer feel cute? Are you giving yourself the “ick”? ...Us too! This week, Jayna gets real about what happened on a day when she couldn’t stand to look herself in the mirror. The episode features a heartfelt conversation,…
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#96 Client Nightmare Stories From Danessa Myricks + New Friends at The Makeup Show Atlanta!
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You’re invited to come join Jayna and her two best friends, Rikki and Elsa, on an exciting trip to Atlanta! The ladies are on their way to The Makeup Show, to spread that “bad ass, big lash energy everywhere they go” and boy do they ever! Tune in to hear the great lengths they go through to gain new listeners, and make new friends. Jayna finally ge…
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#95 Jayna's Craziest Bridezilla Story....FINALLY!
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Jayna risked her LIFE for a bride and this was how she repaid her! Have you ever seen a bridezilla out in the wild? Almost every day, someone asks our host ”Tell me a crazy bride story!”. After nearly 2 decades of working in weddings, it’s safe to say she’s got a good handful to choose from. Today, Jayna's FINALLY telling the one that takes the (we…
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#94 The Ugly Side of Doing Hair + Makeup For Brides?…OH MY!
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If you’ve ever considered being a bridal makeup artist, you might change your mind after hearing this! Our host has done hair and makeup almost exclusively for weddings for the past 2 decades and it’s safe to say, she’s seen it all! In this episode, Jayna's bypassing the typical complaints about her chosen career….like the long hours, lack of sleep…
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#93 Recovering from Divorce + Self Confidence: A Talk With THE Jennifer Williams!
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Wouldn’t it be tragic if you went your entire life finding beauty in everyone else but you? In this very special episode, Jayna’s snuggled in bed with Jennifer Williams, one of North Americas top Boudoir Photographers. She’s spent over a decade helping women of all sizes feel comfortable in their own skin. Both ladies bare it all as they discuss th…
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#92 Family Can Break Your Heart Too?! ...Who knew!
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Ever had someone you really cared about not love you back the way you hoped they would? That kind of rejection can shake you to your core and leave you wondering "what's wrong with me?". This week is Jayna's birthday so she's reflecting on the past year, the love she gained and a very surprising heartbreak. Listen as she offers a new perspective on…
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#91 Do NOT Travel to Mexico Without These 6 Tips on How to Have a Safe Trip!
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Unsure of if you should plan a vacation or destination wedding in Mexico? Why not get some advice from someone who’s traveled extensively all over the country? Jayna has been going to Mexico since she was 13 and has visited dozens of times on her own as well. In this episode, our host spills the margarita from her hotel room in cabo san lucas…and i…
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#90 OMG It’s Danessa Myricks! We Talk Success, Her Makeup Brand + Making The Bed!
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An inspiring conversation between Jayna and the celebrity makeup artist who’s had the biggest impact on her career. Join in as the ladies discuss their shared passion for lifting women up, finding joy in the small things and the power that comes from embracing your uniqueness. Danessa went from being an unemployed single mama to the founder and CEO…
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#89 How She Turned An Embarrassing Loss Into An Epic Win!
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In this episode, Jayna takes her team of MUA's to visit The Makeup Show in Los Angeles and it ends up being life changing! After taking classes from influential celebrity stylists, she has stars in her eyes...she imagined herself teaching on stage too. So, in the name of dreaming big, she takes a big leap aaaand... falls right on her face! Listen i…
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#88 Does Your Mother-In-Law Make You Twitch?
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Here's How to Deal With The...Nice Lady. We’re discussing MIL's that have come completely unhinged…and there’s lots of them! In this episode, Jayna shares nightmare stories from some of her brides and of course, it wouldnt be BLE if she didnt give a little advice. You'll gain a new perspective as to why your relationship might be strained, as well …
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#87 Avoid These Three No-No’s And You’ll Reach Your Goals!
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How many times have you failed to keep a promise that you made to yourself? We're all guilty! Whether it relates to getting in better shape, saving money, eating healthy...oftentimes its easier to keep our word when it comes to things we've promised other people. So what's the deal? In this episode, we're talking about the 3 mistakes we make when s…
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#86 When Life Feels Like WOAH: Why Jayna Considered Quitting This Show
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Feeling stressed? Imagine losing your sister/business partner and gaining a daughter all in the span of 6 months. Life can throw challenges our way that leave us feeling like we're drowning in a sea of responsibilities. From work pressures to personal challenges, it's easy to feel like we're being pulled in multiple directions. In this episode, Jay…
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#85 Besties Talk Business Part 2: Shannon Mann + Rikki (Jayna’s Right Hand!)
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“Behind Every Successful woman is a tribe of other successful women who have her back”. This isn't your typical business talk—it's a fun and heart warming journey through the highs and lows of building a business with your friends by your side. Whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur or just love a good laugh, these chats will leave you inspired, e…
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