Comedian, author, and podcaster Chris Gethard joins Melissa and Courtney to talk about a song that prompts lingering questions for an ex and the oddity of becoming strangers with former partners. Then, Chris shares the loneliness of being a dad and discusses his new book, “Dad at Peace.” 🔗 Chris’s Links "Dad at Peace" by Chris Gethard Beautiful/Ano…

Encore episode! Writer, showrunner and podcast host Erick Galindo joins Courtney and Melissa to talk about Rock en Español, breakup songs to cry to on the dance floor, and reclaiming music and artists that were once ruined by an ex. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sel…

Gossip queen and journalist Kelsey McKinney joins Melissa and Courtney to talk about an ex-roommate that ruined a song for her, JLo’s new film, and Kelsey’s podcast Normal Gossip. Then, she shares a generous behind-the-scenes look of what it’s like to work in a media co-op. 🔗 Kelsey’s Links: Normal Gossip Podcast Defector Media Instagram, X Website…

It's encore time! Ivy Le, comedian and host of the podcast FOGO, joins Courtney and Melissa to talk about The Killers and the song that made her rule them out for good. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Music Artist Madi Diaz joins Courtney and Melissa to talk about how a break up that led to a cross-country road trip, haunted places, Harry Styles, and her new album “Weird Faith.” Madi’s Links: Tour Dates & Tickets "Weird Faith" album Instagram Support us on Patreon! 🔥 See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice a…

Encore episode with guest Upsahl. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Mackenzie Scott, also known as musician Torres, joins Melissa and Courtney to talk about past selves, dancing in the kitchen, and her latest album. They also chat about the channeling anxiety experiences into songs. Torres Links Tour Dates “What an Enormous Room” Album Official Website Instagram See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and C…

In this episode, we go back to Maggie Serota to talk about 90s romance, the disillusionment of a teen movie, and synth pop. Support us on Patreon! 🔥 See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Legendary musician Allison Wolfe (of Bratmobile, Sex Stains, Deep Lust, Cold Cold Hearts) joins Melissa and Courtney on SMXR’s 50th episode to talk about an “oh, why not” situationship that ruined two songs for her. Then they talk about riot grrl ephemera, pierogis, and the exciting reunion of Bratmobile and upcoming shows. 🔗Allison’s Links: Bratmo…

We go back to author and creator of the Oscar-nominated short film "My Year of Dicks" Pamela Ribon, who joins the show to talk about an ex's comedic twist to Jewel's 1996 hit "You Were Meant For Me." See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.…

Music journalist Will Hermes joins Melissa and Courtney to talk about a double miss: a romantic connection and a legendary concert, and then they chat about drugs and rock ’n’ roll and getting geeky on music. Plus, they get into Will’s new book on Lou Reed. Will Hermes Links Buy Will’s new book Website Twitter / X See Privacy Policy at https://art1…

Legendary guitarist Marnie Stern joins Melissa and Courtney to talk about a guy who ghosted and left her heartbroken for years. Then, they chat about discovering new artists back then versus now, being a mom while touring, and after 10 years, releasing her first LP The Comeback Kid. 🔗 Marnie's LINKS New Album: The Comeback Kid Tour Dates Instagram …

This week is an encore episode! Writer, comedian and musician Lane Moore talks about the specific heartbreak that is sharing a favorite song with an ex, only to be met with a catastrophic breakup. Plus, we talk about Lane’s new book, You Will Find Your People: How to Make Meaningful Friendships as an Adult. ☕️ Buy us a coffee! ⭐️Enjoying the podcas…

Abigail Barlow, who won a Grammy for her unofficial Bridgerton musical album, joins Courtney and Melissa to talk about two songs (out of many) ruined by boys and why she stans Justin Bieber. Then they talk about losing momentum after going viral and her forthcoming album Princess Pop. BONUS: There's a special treat at the end of this episode so be …

Comedian Kyle Gordon joins Melissa and Courtney to talk about falling out of a friendship with another comic, his influences for his debut album, and country girl power anthems. 🔗 Kyle's LINKS Album: Kyle Gordon is Great Upcoming Tour Dates TikTok, Instagram ☕️ Buy us a coffee! ⭐️Enjoying the podcast? Please leave a rating and review on your podcas…

Podcaster Ronald Young Jr. joins Courtney and Melissa to talk about an ex who not only ruined a song but the artist who made that song. Then, they get in-depth about Ronald’s experience in asking vulnerable questions about weight, relationships, and curiosity over confrontation. Ronald’s Links Listen to Weight for It Listen to Leaving the Theater T…

Journalist J’na Jefferson joins Courtney and Melissa to talk about a first ex that takes us through a wang-dang-doodle journey (oh, it's a JOURNEY journey) and how to set boundaries. Plus, they delightfully chat about the b-word in music. J’na Links Website Instagram Listen to Who You Calling a Bitch? episode on Have You Heard This One? Podcast ☕️ …

This week is an encore episode! Singer-songwriter K.Flay joins Courtney and Melissa to talk about not one, but two records that transport her back to past experiences, both good and even scary. Plus, we bring you a specific word to describe the feeling of sentimental sadness. ☕️ Buy us a coffee! ⭐️Enjoying the podcast? Please leave a rating and rev…

Flyte’s Will Taylor joins Courtney and Melissa to talk about a specific song that he’s ritualized for break ups, the influence of teen-girl fandom in the music industry, and artist collaborations. Then they chat about Flyte’s current tour. Flyte Links: Tour Dates Music Instagram ☕️ Buy us a coffee! ⭐️Enjoying the podcast? Please leave a rating and …

Author TJ Alexander joins Courtney and Melissa to talk about a favorite song ruined by a bad movie date, early 2000s metal, and finding belonging in goth culture. Then TJ discusses their spicy, rom-com novels. TJ's Links Buy TJ’s books TJ’s Website Instagram ⭐️Enjoying the podcast? Please leave a rating and review on your podcast app. See Privacy P…

Podcaster Jane Marie joins Melissa and Courtney to talk about an ex from a band with some major hits, the early days of Lollapalooza, and The Dream’s latest season investigating life coaching and wellness culture. They also chat about Jane Marie’s forthcoming book. JANE MARIE’S LINKS Pre-order the book: Selling the Dream The Dream Podcast ⭐️Enjoyin…

Daniel Gumbiner on Bon Iver’s “Blood Bank” Author Daniel Gumbiner joins our hosts Melissa and Courtney to talk about heartbreak from his college years and a highly-selective, eclectic secret club. Then they chew on closure letters and his latest novel’s structure around California’s wildfires. DANIEL’S LINKS BOOK: Fire in the Canyon on Bookshop Web…

This week is an encore episode! Comedian Gianmarco Soresi joins Courtney and Melissa to discuss the loss of innocence that occurred at a Spice Girls concert. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Musician Maddie Zahm joins Courtney and Melissa to talk about different timelines in queer love. Then they go into what led to “Fat Funny Friend,” fat visibility on TikTok, religious trauma, and antidepressant latte. MADDIE’S LINKS ALBUM: Now That I’ve Been Honest Tour Dates TikTok Instagram ⭐️Enjoying the podcast? Please leave a rating and review …

A new podcast from Nevermind Media! Have You Heard This One? is a sound-rich anthology series that uses intimate storytelling, deep research, and creative sound design to tell the stories of the overlooked artists, fascinating characters, under-represented voices, lost-to-history events, and forgotten chapters of some of the greatest music stories …

Music Artist V V Brown joins our hosts to talk about a shocking incident with a narcissist. Then they chat about family time with TikTok recipes and her upcoming album release, Am I British Yet? 🔗 V V’S LINKS ALBUM: Am I British Yet? MUSICE VIDEO: Black British Website Instagram TikTok Spotify ⭐️Enjoying the podcast? Please leave a rating and revie…

Doree Shafrir, author and host of Forever35, joins Courtney and Melissa to talk about hot men and their taste in music, workout playlists from upbeat songs to Gregorian chants, and of course, the popular podcast Forever35. 🔗 DOREE’S LINKS Forever35 Website Newsletter Instagram ⭐️Enjoying the podcast? Please leave a rating and review on your podcast…

This week is an encore episode! Comedian Gabe Mollica shares a song ruined by an ex and an ex-friend and the story behind his one-man show, "Solo: A Story About Friendship" 🔗 GABE’S LINKS Website ⭐️Enjoying the podcast? Please leave a rating and review on your podcast app. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notic…

Country Music Artist Lola Kirke joins our hosts Melissa and Courtney to talk about a rock star’s phone call, her passion for country music, and summer camp friendship with Elle King. They also discuss genre-labeling and its history. 🔗 LOLA’S LINKS Tour Dates Official Music Video of “All My Exes Live in L.A.” Instagram ✏️ OUR SURVEY ➡ Enjoying the p…

Culture writer Niko Stratis joins Melissa and Courtney to talk about small town romance that isn't like a Hallmark movie. Then they discuss the 20th Anniversary of Death Cab for Cutie's Transatlanticism and Niko's recently launched music podcast Blue Eyes Crying By The Chips, which SMXR listeners will want to add to their queue. 🔗 NIKO'S LINKS Podc…

Jenny Owen Youngs, singer-songwriter and host of multiple podcasts, joins Melissa and Courtney to talk about a ruined wedding song, a Coldplay record, and what it was like to continue working with her ex. Then, she reflects on the vulnerability of her upcoming album. LINKS Jenny Owen Youngs Tour Dates Jenny Owen Youngs “Avalanche” OUR SURVEY Enjoyi…

This week, we would like to introduce you to Crimes of the Heart with Rory Uphold. It's a love and dating podcast with a true crime twist. In this episode, musician Betty Who and Rory Uphold talk revenge, true love, monogamy and coming out as Queer. For more information, visit the website: crimesoftheheartpod.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19…

Author and Texas Monthly Senior Editor Dan Solomon joins our hosts Courtney and Melissa to talk about his teenage break-up story with a letter and how teen boys express themselves. We also get a glimpse into his debut YA novel, The Fight for Midnight. Available on our bookshop.org page. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California…

Musician Sadie Dupuis (Speedy Ortiz) flips the script on Courtney and Melissa with how she ruined songs for an ex, by way of revenge micro-fame. Plus, we hear about the craft of songwriting and poetry. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.…

Writer Whitney Matheson joins the podcast to talk about a 1994 album that became the go-to for making out on dorm room beds in college. Plus, we talk about why you probably want to avoid outdoor sex. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.…

Rory Uphold, multi-hyphenate and podcast host of 'Crimes of the Heart,' joins Courtney and Melissa to talk about a yearslong on-and-off relationship that came to a heartbreaking — and temporary — end during a summer in Chicago. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-…

Writer, showrunner and podcast host Erick Galindo joins Courtney and Melissa to talk about Rock en Español, breakup songs to cry to on the dance floor, and reclaiming music and artists that were once ruined by an ex. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.…

Writer and author Molly Prentiss talks about a mid-2000’s song that epitomized her time in Brooklyn as a 20-something-year-old. Plus, we talk about Molly’s newest book, fittingly called “Old Flame.” See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.…

Singer-songwriter K.Flay joins Courtney and Melissa to talk about not one, but two records that transport her back to past experiences, both good and even scary. Plus, we bring you a specific word to describe the feeling of sentimental sadness. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privac…

Eric Silver, head of creative at the podcast company Multitude, joins the show to talk about an ex who created the single most devastating mixtape for him and titled it “Sad Songs for Eric.” See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.…

Rachel Brodsky, writer and editor at Stereogum and co-host of the podcast *IN SYNC, joins the show to talk about how a moment at a Broken Social Scene concert in New York City led to a starry-eyed, romanticized relationship with someone who later revealed their true colors. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Noti…

Writer, comedian and musician Lane Moore talks about the specific heartbreak that is sharing a favorite song with an ex, only to be met with a catastrophic breakup. Plus, we talk about Lane’s new book, You Will Find Your People: How to Make Meaningful Friendships as an Adult. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy No…

Kristen Meinzer, co-host of the podcast How to Be Fine, talks about a bad college relationship that revealed a problematic meaning behind the 1977 song “How Deep Is Your Love.” See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.…

Jesse Sparks, editor at Eater.com and host of The One Recipe, joins the podcast to talk about a song that transports him back to a New York summer of love, first times, and Fireball and Dark ‘N Stormies. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.…

Singer-songwriter Fenne Lily talks about a track that reinvigorated her connection to music… but also reminds her of the ups and downs of a pandemic relationship. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ivy Le, comedian and host of the podcast FOGO, joins Courtney and Melissa to talk about The Killers and the song that made her rule them out for good. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Recipe for Disaster author Alison Riley talks about a breakup that led to the ruin of nearly all of PJ Harvey's catalog... plus, the meal that got her through it. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

"Embedded" writer Kate Lindsay joins Courtney and Melissa to talk about a playlist that brought her and an ex together while thousands of miles apart. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sex Pistols' original bassist Glen Matlock talks about Stevie Wonder's 1969 track "My Cherie Amour" and discusses his new music. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Author and creator of the Oscar-nominated short film "My Year of Dicks" Pamela Ribon joins the show to talk about an ex's comedic twist to Jewel's 1996 hit "You Were Meant For Me." See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.…