"…and so that you complete the number and glorify Allah for having guided you, and that you may give thanks." — Surah Al-Baqara (2:185) 🌙 Episode Summary As we approach the end of Ramadan, we reflect on what it means to truly keep Allah at the center of our lives. Ramadan has been a time of spiritual focus, self-discipline, and connection to the Di…

Count Your Blessings Verse Reflection: “And if you count Allah's favors, you will not be able to number them.” — Surah Ibrahim (14:34) 🌟 Episode Summary In this episode, we reflect on the Qur’anic reminder that Allah’s blessings are infinite—too many to count. From the seen to the unseen, the obvious to the hidden, His favors surround us constantly…

Pay It Forward Qur’anic Verse: “…And do good to others as Allah has done good to you.” – Surah Al-Qasas (28:77) 🌟 Episode Summary This reflection centers around the Quranic command to use our blessings—wealth, knowledge, time, and influence—not just for ourselves, but in service to others. Drawing from the story of Qarun, a man who failed to recogn…

"And I swear by the self-accusing soul." – Surah Al-Qiyamah (75:2) 🧭 Episode Summary: In this reflection, we explore the concept of Nafs al-Lawwama—the self-accusing soul—as a divine gift that keeps our spiritual compass aligned. Rather than seeing guilt as something to suppress, the Quran invites us to embrace it as a sign of life in the heart and…

“Repel (evil) with what is best, then the one between whom and you was enmity will become like a close friend.” — Surah Fussilat (41:34) 🧭 Episode Summary: Conflict is inevitable, but how we respond is a powerful reflection of who we are. In this episode, we explore the Quranic invitation to repel negativity with what is best. Instead of mirroring …

“Let not hatred of a people incite you not to act equitably; act equitably, that is nearer to piety.” — Surah Al-Ma’idah (5:8) 🧭 Episode Summary: In today’s episode, we reflect on the Quran’s powerful guidance to uphold justice and fairness, not just with those we love, but especially with those we disagree with or dislike. True justice, as Allah c…

🧭 Episode Summary: “O you who believe! Let not one people deride another; it may be that they are better than they.” Surah Al-Hujurat (49:11) In today’s reflection, we explore the serious spiritual and emotional consequences of mockery and ridicule in relationships and community life. While sarcasm and making fun of others may feel like harmless hu…

In this episode, we explore a subtle but powerful relationship principle from the Quran: how our interpretations of others’ behavior shape our emotional well-being and relationships. Suspicion and negative assumptions can harm even the strongest bonds. But with awareness and compassion, we can choose more balanced, kind, and healthy interpretations…

“And do not quarrel, for then you will lose heart and your power will depart.” [Surah Al-Anfal 8:46] Conflict is natural in any relationship, team, or community—but how we handle those differences determines whether we grow or fall apart. In this episode, we explore the Quranic warning against internal division and how unresolved quarrels can strip…

In this episode, we explore Surah Al-Hujurat (49:10) which calls us to a higher standard of community: “The believers are but brothers, so make settlement between your brothers. And fear Allah that you may receive mercy.” This verse emphasizes that we are not just acquaintances or allies—we are spiritual siblings, bound by faith. Disagreements are …

Episode Summary: Our relationships—whether in family, friendships, marriage, or community—are central to our well-being. Research confirms that healthy relationships lead to lower stress, greater happiness, and increased resilience. Islam beautifully aligns with this, emphasizing that our connection with Allah impacts how we treat others—and vice v…

Yesterday, we reflected on how forgetting Allah leads us to forget our true selves. Today, we take that discussion further by reminding ourselves of our inherent nobility and purpose. In Surah Al-Isra (17:70), Allah (SWT) declares: “And surely We have honored the children of Adam… and We have made them to excel by an appropriate excellence over mos…

Episode Summary: Yesterday, we explored how what we consume affects our soul. Today, we take that conversation deeper by reflecting on Surah Al-Hashr (59:19): “And be not like those who forgot Allah, so He made them forget their own souls. Those are the transgressors.” This verse warns us about the gradual loss of spiritual awareness—a slow, almost…

Yesterday, we reflected on the importance of eating what is tayyib (pure, wholesome). Today, we expand on this idea by exploring all forms of consumption—not just what we eat, but what we read, watch, and listen to. In Surah Abasa (80:24), Allah (SWT) commands: “Then let man look at his food.” While this verse primarily refers to physical nourishme…

Episode Summary: Food is one of the greatest blessings from Allah, yet in today’s world of ultra-processed foods and commercial farming, we must ask: Are we truly eating in a way that nourishes our bodies, minds, and souls? In Surah Al-Baqarah (2:172), Allah commands: “O you who believe! Eat of the good things (tayyib) that We have provided for you…

Episode Summary: We often seek comfort and avoid discomfort, but what if the things we resist are actually the key to our well-being? In Surah Al-Baqarah (2:216), Allah (SWT) reminds us: “It may be that you dislike something while it is good for you, and it may be that you love something while it is bad for you. And Allah knows, while you do not kn…

Fasting is challenging—so how do we reconcile the difficulty of Ramadan with Allah’s promise in Surah Al-Baqarah (2:185): “Allah desires ease for you, and He does not desire for you difficulty…” In this episode, we explore the true meaning of ease and why it is often earned through hardship. While modern culture equates ease with comfort, Islam tea…

In our previous episode, we reflected on how trials are an inevitable part of life. But once we accept that hardships will come, the next important question is: How do we respond to them? In today’s episode, we explore Surah Al-Baqarah (2:155-157), where Allah (SWT) reminds us that patience (sabr) is the key to attracting His blessings, mercy, and …

Life is full of challenges, and yet, when we face difficulties, we often feel caught off guard. In today’s episode, we reflect on Surah Al-Ankabut (29:2-3), where Allah reminds us that simply professing faith does not mean we will be left untested: “Do men think that they will be left alone on saying, ‘We believe,’ and not be tried?” – (Quran 29:2)…

When life doesn’t go as planned, our natural instinct is often to look outward—to blame someone or something else for our pain or problems. But what if blame is actually holding us back from healing, growth, and true wellbeing? In today’s episode, we explore the seductive nature of blame and how it functions as a defense mechanism that protects us …

In today’s episode, we explore a powerful truth from the Quran about wellbeing: that real change begins from within. While we often wait for external circumstances to shift, the Quran teaches us to focus on what is in our control—our mindset, our actions, and our choices. Drawing from Surah Ar-Ra’d (13:11), “Indeed, Allah does not change the condit…

Today's reflection is adapted from the introduction to the book Calling on the Merciful, which features excerpts from the supplications taught by the Beloveds of Allah [swt]. Episode Summary: In this episode, we reflect on the beautiful invitation and promise from Allah [swt] in Surah Ghafir [40:60]: وَقَالَ رَبُّكُمُ ادْعُونِي أَسْتَجِبْ لَكُمْ "A…

In this episode, we reflect on the profound message of Surah Taghabun, verse 11: وَمَن يُؤْمِن بِاللَّهِ يَهْدِ قَلْبَهُ وَاللَّهُ بِكُلِّ شَيْءٍ عَلِيمٌ “… and whoever believes in Allah, He guides aright his heart; and Allah is Cognizant of all things.” [64:11] Life is full of crossroads, difficult decisions, and overwhelming choices, making it ha…

As we continue to deepen our relationship with the Divine, today’s episode explores one of the most profound promises Allah (SWT) makes in the Quran: “Whoever puts their trust in Allah, He is sufficient for them.” (Quran 65:3) This verse from Surah Talaq reminds us that true peace and security come from relying on Allah. But what does it mean to tr…

In this episode, we explore the third essential aspect of developing our relationship with Allah: submission to Him. If we truly recognize and reciprocate Allah’s love and have awe of His greatness, submission becomes a natural and fulfilling choice rather than a burden. We begin with the powerful Quranic verse from Surah Al-Baqarah (2:112), which …

In this episode, we continue our exploration of developing a deep connection with Allah by focusing on khashyah (خشية)—awe of Allah. Often mistranslated as fear, khashyah is a reverence that comes from knowledge, reflection, and love rather than anxiety over punishment. We begin by reflecting on Surah Az-Zumar (39:23), where Allah describes how the…

Episode Summary: In our journey toward fostering well-being, we must recognize and nourish our innate need for connection with the Divine. Over the next three days, we will explore three key aspects of developing a meaningful relationship with Allah: 1. Love of Allah 2. Awe of Allah 3. Submission to Allah Today, we begin with **Love of Allah**—the …

Rest Your Heart in His Remembrance [13:28] Episode Summary: In our constant search for peace and happiness, we often turn to material success, relationships, achievements, and self-care. However, true and lasting peace can only be found in the remembrance of Allah. In this episode, we explore the profound wisdom of Surah Ar-Ra’d (13:28): "Those who…

"Know Your Fitrah" [30:30] Episode Summary: What brings us true well-being, peace, and happiness? The answer lies in understanding our fitrah—our innate nature as created by Allah. In this episode, we reflect on Surah Ar-Rum (30:30), where Allah tells us that human beings are created with a natural disposition that inclines toward truth, justice, a…

In this episode, we explore the paradox of modern wellbeing—why, despite the global pursuit of happiness and self-care, mental health struggles like anxiety and depression continue to rise. We compare secular psychology’s approach to wellbeing with the Islamic perspective, highlighting how true inner peace goes beyond self-optimization to spiritual…

As salāmu alaykum and welcome to Loving and Living the Qur'an, your guide to practical spirituality for modern Muslims. In this series, recorded from our live sessions during Muharram (July 2024), we're reflecting on the theme of "Finding Peace in an Imperfect World." If you have any comments or suggestions for future topics, please email us at liv…

As salāmu alaykum and welcome to Loving and Living the Qur'an, a podcast dedicated to practical spirituality for modern Muslims. In this episode, we dive into the theme of self-esteem, a topic we've been exploring throughout this month of Adha. Self-esteem, or self-worth, is crucial for our mental and emotional well-being. It shapes how we perceive…

As salāmu alaykum and welcome back to Loving and Living the Qur'an. In this episode, we explore how to navigate life's difficulties with grace and resilience, a theme we focused on during Muharram this year. Join us as we discuss practical strategies for maintaining balance and happiness in a world that often feels turbulent and unpredictable. We’l…

As-salāmu alaykum and welcome back to Loving and Living the Qur'an. In this episode, we dive deep into our Muharram reflections on "Finding Peace in an Imperfect World." Join us as we explore the challenges of balancing acceptance, action, and hope amidst life's trials. We’ll discuss how the Qur'an guides us to cultivate inner tranquility and build…

As-salāmu alaykum! Welcome back to Loving and Living the Qur'an. In today’s episode, we dive deep into our ongoing series, "Finding Peace in an Imperfect World." We'll explore how gratitude can be a powerful tool for finding inner peace, especially when facing life’s challenges. We'll reflect on the teachings of the Qur'an and the Ahlulbayt about m…

As salāmu alaykum and welcome to another episode of Loving and Living the Qur'an! In today’s lecture, the seventh in our series “Finding Peace in an Imperfect World,” we explore the transformative power of gratitude. Recorded live during Muharram 2024, this episode dives into how gratitude, both a command and a promise from Allah, can help us find …

As-salāmu alaykum and welcome to another episode of Loving and Living the Qur'an. In this episode, recorded during our Muharram sessions in July 2024, we delve into finding tranquility in a world that often feels far from perfect. We explore the profound concept of tawakkul—trusting in Allah's plan—by examining its role in reducing anxiety and fost…

As-salāmu alaykum! Welcome to another episode of Loving and Living the Qur'an. In today’s episode, we dive into our fifth lecture from the Muharram series, focusing on "Finding Peace in an Imperfect World: Balancing Acceptance, Action, and Hope." Join us as we explore the concept of tawakkul (trust in Allah) and how it can transform our approach to…

As-salāmu alaykum! Welcome back to Loving and Living the Quran. In this episode, we dive into our series on "Finding Peace in an Imperfect World," recorded during our Muharram sessions. Today, we’re exploring the practice of contentment and how it ties into our quest for inner peace. We’ll reflect on why contentment is so elusive in today’s world o…

As salāmu alaykum and welcome back to Loving and Living the Quran! In today’s episode, we’re diving into the third part of our Muharram series, exploring "Finding Peace in an Imperfect World: Balancing Acceptance, Action, and Hope." We’re continuing our journey of reflection and practical spirituality, focusing on how we can find inner peace amidst…

In this episode of 'Loving and Living the Qur'an,' recorded from live sessions held in Muharram 2024, the focus is on finding peace amidst worldly distractions by balancing acceptance, action, and hope. Key discussions revolve around the importance of intentions, the nature of distractions as outlined in verse 20 of Surah Hadid, and insights from I…

Welcome to Loving and Living the Quran, a podcast dedicated to practical spirituality for modern Muslims. In this series, we reflect on finding peace in an imperfect world, recorded live during the Muharram sessions of July 2024. The majalis serve to honor Bibi Sayyeda Zahra, providing a unique opportunity for us to give rather than receive, in a c…

Yesterday we reflected on a truth about this life from the Quran: that life is full of challenges. Today, let us look at a promise of Allah [swt] that gives us confidence that we have what it takes to succeed in these challenges and find our way through these distresses. At the end of Chapter 2, Sura Al-Baqara the Quran tells us: Allah does not tas…

As We Wrap Up The Blessed Month Of Ramadan, We May Be Feeling A Mix Of Emotions: A Tinge Of Sadness At The Ending Of The Month Of Blessings, Mercy And Forgiveness, A Sense Of Relief That We Were Able To Fast And Pray [And That We Can Eat Again!] And Maybe Some Regret That We Did Not Or Could Not Do More During The Blessed Minutes And Hours Of This …

Today’s reflection is from Sura Balad where Allah [swt] says: Certainly We have created man to be in distress. [90:4] In this verse, Allah [swt] uses the word kabad for distress. Scholars explain that the word kabad which originally means intensity, also signifies 'a disease in the liver of a person’ and is used for any trouble and misery. This ver…

In Verse 39 of Sura Najm, Allah says: And that man shall have nothing but what he strives for. (Holy Quran 53:39) For today’s verse, I could not find a better title than the Urdu phrase: Harkat mein barkat, meaning there is blessing in movement/striving. One of the principles of life, taught by experience and by Divinity, is that human beings get w…

Today’s reflection is from Chapter 23, Sura Muminum where the Holy Quran says: "It is they who hasten to every good work and these who are foremost in them." [23:61] In this verse and a couple of verses preceding it, Allah [swt] points out a few qualities of the believers. One of their qualities that they “hasten to do good deeds”. This desire is b…

Today’s reflection is verse 9 from Chapter 62, Sura Juma, when Allah [swt] addresses the believers and says: O you who believe! when the call is made for prayer on Friday, then hasten to the remembrance of Allah and leave off trading; that is better for you, if you know. [62:9] 4 important points are made in this verse: 1. When the call for the Fri…

Continuing with this verse from Sura Ale Imran: So by mercy from Allah, [O Muhammad], you were lenient with them. And if you had been rude [in speech] and harsh in heart, they would have disbanded from about you. So pardon them and ask forgiveness for them and consult them in [some of] the matter. And when you have decided, then rely upon Allah. In…

Here is today's reflection from the Quran: In Sura Maida, the Quran whilst talking about whom to take as a Wali, says: Your Wali is only Allah, His Apsotle, and the faithful of those who keep up prayers and give alms while they bow. [Quran 5:55] As we commemorate the occasion of the martyrdom of Imam Ali (as), let us reflect on this verse to remind…