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In a world where the definition of masculinity is rapidly evolving, men today face unique challenges. Lower average testosterone levels and weaker handshakes compared to previous generations are just a few of the physical changes men are experiencing. However, true masculinity transcends physical strength—it's about fulfilling responsibilities towards family, spouse, and society with sincerity and determination. Welcome to Joel Gandara's podcast that’s not about weightlifting or steroid use, ...
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Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at ...
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If you’re looking to enhance your relationship and deepen your connection with your partner, this episode is a must-listen. Here’s a sneak peek of what we covered: Key Takeaways: Emotional Management is Key: Dr. Frazier emphasizes that managing your emotions is crucial for fostering intimacy. Reacting negatively to rejection can erode trust and att…
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Joel has become a good friend of mine over the past few months. Today you’ll learn about his story… And his program, 31 Days To Become A Better Man… That has helped men apply business, financial, physical and relationship principles… To create BIG transformations in just 31 days. Hear some of the inspiring stories in today’s episode… Watch on YouTu…
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Ask yourself today: How can I partner with God to use the time and money He’s given me to bless others? Then go do it! Let me know how it goes. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io P.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike? Appl…
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If you’re like me, you’re very concerned about things being fair. You work hard for the money and respect you get… And you expect others to do the same. When they don’t work as hard as you… But still get money or respect… You can get upset. Jealous. Angry. Frustrated. Are those fruits of the Spirit? Are they part of the Abundant Life God wants for …
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Ask yourself a few quick questions: -Do I spend more time thinking about money… or about God? -Do I feel more security from my money and investments… or from trusting God to provide for me? -If my assets were stolen, what would my reaction be? If you find that you are trusting money for your sense of safety and security more than God… There’s a qui…
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I’ve had a personal shift that I wanted to share with you today. I realized that I was trusting money for my security vs trusting God. Since I’ve made the shift, I feel: -Much more peace -Much lighter -Much more grateful And, God is blessing me financially as well. Learn how to check if you’re trusting money too much… And what to do about it… In to…
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Whether you’re navigating the complexities of online dating or mustering the courage for a cold approach, this episode is packed with insights and strategies to elevate your dating game. Here are some key takeaways and intriguing points from our chat: Overcoming Psychological Barriers The Three-Second Rule: Act quickly to avoid overthinking and ins…
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I had a big failure as a husband and father a few days ago. I met negativity with negativity… and damaged relationships badly in the process. I spent the day with God yesterday and He helped show me a better way… And how to accomplish it… Learn how in today’s episode… Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, Ho…
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Today, find a way to reverse the invalidation triple threat. Let your wife know you did something wrong (invalidated her)... That you can understand how she would feel (unheard, unseen, unsafe)... And that you can understand how she could think a certain way (that she’s not important to you, that you think you’re better than her, etc.)... And let m…
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A few weeks back we talked about the Invalidation Triple Threat. That’s when you tell your wife: -She’s wrong for what she’s thinking -She’s wrong for what she’s feeling -You’re right This causes her to close her heart… and body… off from you. We all do this sometimes, and luckily we can reverse it by reversing those 3 steps: -Tell her how you were…
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Tuesday you learned how to stop a marriage fight by… Step 1 - Notice the anger Step 2 - Release the anger Step 3 - Listen or walk away Now, try it and see how it goes! Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io P.P.S. Want to work intensively…
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If you’re passionate about martial arts, personal growth, or just love a good story, you won’t want to miss this episode. Here’s a sneak peek into the wisdom and experiences Jim shared with us: Key Takeaways from Jim "The Beast" Alers: From Humble Beginnings to Martial Arts Mastery: Jim’s journey started in a less affluent area of Hollywood, Florid…
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My wife and I got in a fight last night… And it reminded me of 3 steps I can take in the future to step out of the “who’s right” pattern… Creating less safety and closed hearts… And step into a pattern that allows more connection and intimacy…. Step 1 - Notice the anger Step 2 - Release the anger Step 3 - Listen or walk away Watch on YouTube here. …
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So you learned that getting mad back, the invalidation triple threat and trying to make your wife happy won’t work. Instead, try… Responding with kindness… Serving her because you want to (going the extra mile)... Or just saying “no.” And let me know how it goes. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Y…
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When your wife gets mad at you for something, most men either… Get mad back… Tell their wife she’s wrong and justify themselves (invalidation triple threat)... Or tuck tail and just try to make her happy. Unfortunately, all of these lead to disconnection and lack of intimacy. Learn what to do instead… in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. http…
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Relationships are built by… Talking to people Spending time together Doing things together To build a relationship with Jesus, you need to do the same things. Choose 1 to do this week. And let me know how it goes. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http:…
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The latest episode features the one and only Muhammed Lawal, also known as "King Mo." This episode is packed with fascinating stories, life lessons, and a deep dive into the world of a former professional mixed martial artist and wrestler. Here are some highlights that you won't want to miss: Key Takeaways from the Episode: Health and Fitness Post-…
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Do you feel like you’re doing what God wants you to do in your marriage… Putting your wife first, serving her, losing so she can win… But you don’t feel blessed by God for those efforts? In fact, you just feel resentful? Learn today what Jesus was REALLY saying in his Beatitudes (according to The Divine Conspiracy by Dallas Willard) So you can find…
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Your wife’s heart has closed to you because it’s been hurt. By you. Today, recognize a way you have hurt her heart. Apologize. And stop doing it. As a bonus, do the opposite to help her start healing and opening her heart. Let me know how it goes. Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/ Wa…
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How To Get Your Wife’s Heart To Open To You If you feel like roommates in your marriage… If you’re getting one-word answers from your wife… If you feel disconnected emotionally and sexually… Your wife has closed her heart to you. How do you get it to open back up, so you have the connection, looks of love and physical intimacy you want? Learn in to…
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There’s something important to your wife that isn’t important to you. Maybe it’s the way towels are folded. The way counters are wiped. Leaving the toilet seat up. Instead of dismissing this as stupid… See this as a chance to serve her in her language. Put the toilet seat down. Not as a way of “caving in,” but as a way to speak love to her in her l…
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This podcast episode features the incredible Dan Wolgin, CEO and co-owner of Ammunition Depot. This conversation was packed with insights, personal stories, and valuable lessons that I just couldn’t wait to share with you all. Here’s a sneak peek into what we discussed: Key Takeaways from My Chat with Dan Wolgin: Simplifying Complex Ideas: Dan has …
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As high achieving Christian men, we like to be right. And, it’s important to be right in some things, particularly in our work. But, when we focus on being right in our marriage… And our wife being wrong… We create disconnection, lack of trust, and low intimacy. Learn what to do instead… To create deep connection, intimacy and the look of love in y…
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Now we know that the easy way to feel more love for your wife, your kids, yourself and everyone… Is to PLUG INTO the Kingdom of God that is at hand… meaning AVAILABLE right now. Pray to plug in and feel it… Think of Jesus a few extra times today… Imagine Jesus with you… And let me know what kind of difference you feel. Listen on the Strong Men Stro…
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Do you feel like you’re trying SO HARD to be a good husband and father? Do you feel like you’re putting every effort you can in… but it just doesn’t seem like enough? Your wife doesn’t appreciate it, or you keep it up for a while… then fail? Well, there’s GOOD NEWS. You don’t have to try so hard! There’s a power you can start plugging into TODAY th…
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Unveiling Resilience and Redemption I’m thrilled to share the latest episode with you, featuring an extraordinary guest, Tony Genova. Tony’s story is a powerful testament to resilience, transformation, and the relentless pursuit of self-improvement. Here’s a sneak peek into the episode that you won’t want to miss: Key Takeaways from Tony Genova’s J…
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When you tell your wife it’s dumb that something’s important to her that isn’t important to you… Like putting down the toilet seat, cleaning your glass, organizing the pencils, etc… You create distance and show your wife you don’t really care. That you can’t be inconvenienced for her sake. This makes her feel like you don’t really prioritize her… a…
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When was the last time your wife looked at you with the Look of Love? You know the one. The one where you just KNOW she adores you. If it’s been a while… Today’s episode will teach you how to get it back. Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Chr…
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🚀 Transform Your Life with Jason Duncan's Entrepreneurial Wisdom! 🚀 I’m thrilled to share some incredible insights from our latest episode featuring the one and only Jason Duncan. If you’re a man on a mission to improve yourself and conquer new challenges, this episode is a must-listen. Here’s a sneak peek into the goldmine of wisdom Jason shared w…
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The invalidation triple threat is when you: Tell your wife she’s wrong to think that way Tell your wife she’s wrong/immature to feel that way Tell your wife she shouldn’t be hurt by you acting that way/justifying your actions Doing this over and over is what KILLS marriages. So, stop killing your marriage TODAY. Doing this could very well save your…
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This may be the MOST IMPORTANT podcast I have done. I will have already incorporated it into the Strong Men Strong Marriages program. The truth is… I was closer to the end of my marriage than I realized. RECENTLY! And now things are on a trajectory to MUCH more joy and happiness. It’s already happening. Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Pod…
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🏆 Transform Your Leadership: Insights from a World Series Coach 🏆 I’m thrilled to share some golden nuggets from our latest podcast episode, where I had the honor of chatting with the incredible Trent M. Clark. Trent’s journey from Major League Baseball coach to a successful entrepreneur is packed with lessons that can transform your leadership gam…
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This week, when you get angry… Leave and do some exercise. That’s it. Keep it simple. Let me know how it goes. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family t…
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Unleash Your Potential with Eric Schechter: A Journey of Performance, Integrity, and Growth I’m thrilled to share some incredible insights from our latest episode featuring the remarkable Eric Schechter, founder of GiddyUp. This episode is packed with wisdom, challenges, and inspiration that you won’t want to miss. Here’s a sneak peek into what we …
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If you ever… Yell at your wife or kids… Make aggressive or threatening comments to them… Or get physical with them in any way… This episode is for you. If your wife has said she “doesn’t feel safe” with you… this episode is for you. High achieving men often have a temper. I’ve had issues and this episode is one for me for sure. You’ll learn simple …
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Unlock the Secrets to a Thriving Relationship with Dr. Gary Chapman! I’m thrilled to share some incredible insights from our latest podcast episode featuring the legendary Dr. Gary Chapman, the mastermind behind "The Five Love Languages." This episode is packed with wisdom that can transform your relationships and elevate your self-improvement jour…
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If you’re asking your wife to apologize because you’re right and she’s wrong… You probably won’t get very far. She’ll probably dig in and tell you why YOU are wrong and SHE is right. Instead, share how what she did HURT you. And ask her to apologize so you can feel like she cares and you’re on the same team. This requires emotional STRENGTH to make…
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If your wife blames you for her problematic behavior… Like infidelity, overspending, being mean or rude, not following through on her responsibilities… It can be VERY frustrating. Why can’t she just apologize? Why won’t she take ownership of her actions and change? Learn what will help her take ownership… And end your frustration… In today’s episod…
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I'm thrilled to share some incredible insights from our latest podcast episode featuring the remarkable Josh Cox. This episode is packed with wisdom, challenges, and inspiration that you won't want to miss. Here are the key takeaways: 🎯 Lessons from a Javelin Thrower Discipline and Mental Strength**: Josh's journey in javelin throwing taught him th…
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First off... THANK YOU to the many of you who have already purchased the book! We are... -The #1 New Release in Marriage and Long-Term Relationships -The #1 New Release in Christian Marriage -The #1 New Release in Men's Christian Living THANK YOU again for your support! If you haven't yet (of if you want to buy more copies to share)... CLICK HERE t…
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I’m thrilled to share the latest episode of our podcast, where I had an incredible conversation with Michael Waddington who has a fascinating journey from military service to law practice. This episode is packed with insights, challenges, and encouragements that will resonate deeply with anyone on a path of self-improvement. Here are the key takeaw…
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Unleash Your Potential with Eric Malka's Inspiring Journey! I’m thrilled to share some golden nuggets from my latest podcast episode with Eric Malka, the co-founder of The Art of Shaving and a serial entrepreneur. If you're a man on a mission to improve yourself and conquer new heights, this episode is a must-listen. Here’s a sneak peek into the wi…
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If you didn't catch it Tuesday... The book is FINALLY DONE and ready for you on Amazon! Strong Men Strong Marriages: The Christian Husband’s Guide to Sexual, Mental and Emotional Intimacy. For this week only, through August 20th, the eBook is just 99 cents, and if you get the book and write a review, you’ll get access to exclusive content as a big …
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Unleashing Potential: Lessons from Yaniv Rosenberg Yaniv is not just a third-degree black belt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu; he’s a mindset and lifestyle coach, the founder of the No Excuses program, and a successful entrepreneur. His journey from a challenging childhood to becoming a beacon of personal development is nothing short of inspiring. Here are…
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Transform Your Life: Insights from Joel Gandara's Journey to Success Joel Gandara, a man whose life story is nothing short of inspiring. From his humble beginnings as an immigrant from Cuba to becoming a successful entrepreneur and mentor, Joel's journey is a testament to the power of resilience, personal growth, and the importance of building mean…
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Well, it’s been a couple years in the making, but it is available TODAY on Amazon! Strong Men Strong Marriages: The Christian Husband’s Guide to Sexual, Mental and Emotional Intimacy. This book has all the tools, tips and lessons I’ve learned from my own marriage and from coaching hundreds of high achieving Christian men. And, if you purchase it th…
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To create a great marriage, you need to be a strong man. That includes: Spiritual strength (self-worth, self-esteem, self-confidence, mission and purpose, making and keeping promises) Mental strength (ability to challenge and change your thoughts) Emotional strength (ability to feel and release emotions in healthy ways) Physical and financial stren…
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There are days when you feel like you’ve had enough. You’re tired of the little to no sex… The lack of respect and appreciation… And feeling like you’re last on your wife’s priority list. You’re getting all the responsibilities of marriage… Making the money, helping with cooking, cleaning, and kids… But none of the benefits. It’s a tough place to b…
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If you want your wife to prioritize you… Don’t ask her to prioritize you. Figure out one thing that would help you feel like a priority. Maybe that’s making a meal, asking you about your day, or spending some time together. Unless you’re in a good place, I would wait on asking for physical touch, though that can also be a good request if you are. T…
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Your wife spends time with her friends… but not with you. She hugs your kids… but not you. She gets excited for other people… but not you. She seems to prefer to be on her phone more than talking to you. This can be VERY frustrating. But, there are things you need to STOP doing… And START doing… If you want her to prioritize you. Listen on the Stro…
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