Yes, you can be holy and sexy! Discussions on how to keep God at the center of your marriage without forgetting how to keep the bedroom all the way spiced! Finally, a place for wives to be comfortable discussing everything about the bedroom and Bible study at the same time!
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Ep. 225 My Battle With Darkness & Keeping Faith | Season Finale.... (Ch. 8)
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1:04:44Today, Ashlyn opens up about her personal struggles with darkness and the unwavering faith that has carried her through. In this final episode of Season 8, we also wrap up our book club discussion on I Surrender All by Priscilla Shirer, with a deep dive into Chapter 8, which affirms our purpose and identity on earth. With raw honesty and empowering…
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Ep. 224 Overcome Feeling Unquailifed.... (Ch 7)
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30:20Join us as we dive back into our book club series with Chapter 7 of I Surrender All. In this episode, we explore the challenges of feeling unqualified to boldly embrace our transformation and fulfill the purpose God has set before us. No matter your past, today’s discussion will empower you with the courage to step into your calling as a disciple w…
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Ep. 223 Have You Been Honest With Yourself?... (Last Pause)
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41:02In this final pause of our book club reading, we're diving deep into the essential role of honesty in the journey of surrender. In today's episode, we'll explore Scripture to uncover the power of self-honesty and discuss practical steps for embracing it in our lives. Join in as we reflect on the importance of being true in the process of spiritual …
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Ep. 222 Stop Worrying and Stop Condeming Yourself
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36:36In this episode, we discuss HOW to stop worrying and stop condemning yourself. Get your Bibles and let's grow! Download the New Spiced Wife Mobile App: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Google: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.puzystfwapl.p2ibq73xapp The Process: How to Overcome ANY Problem: https://spic…
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Ep. 221 Embracing Suffering... (Let's Pause)
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54:11Let’s pause our reading of I Surrender All book club for a moment and learn how to embrace suffering. This is the mentoring that is needed to keep us strong and focused. This is an episode that pulls us up to spiritual maturity and accountability. Grab your Bible, prepare your heart for some loving but hard truths, and let’s navigate this journey o…
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In this episode, we explore the challenging reality of suffering as a Christian woman and wife. While social media often paints a picture of a smooth, easy life, the truth is that following Jesus means facing hardships. We can't avoid suffering, but we can support each other through it. Join in as we dive into honest conversation, offering encourag…
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Ep. 219 When The Thrill Is Gone...(Ch. 5)
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42:17Has the thrill of your marriage become a thing of the past? This episode takes a deep dive into the heart of marriage while tying in the powerful lessons from Chapter 5 of I Surrender All. What happens when passion fades, and love shifts from delight to duty? We often recognize this in our marriages, but do we also see it in our relationship with G…
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Who are you becoming as you surrender everything to Jesus? In today’s episode, we dive into Chapter 4 of I Surrender All and explore what it means to surrender the process of becoming—especially in the midst of daily needs, wants, pressures, and desires. As disciples, our ultimate purpose is to glorify God, yet so many distractions tempt us to seek…
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Chapter 3 of I Surrender All gives us an identity check! If you knew who you were in Christ, you would not let people or situations get to you. If you believed who you were in Christ, you would not feel guilty and ashamed of your old life of mistakes. Let us surrender what we think gives us an identity and trade it in for the identity of Christ! Do…
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Ep. 216 How to Surrender All to Jesus (Chp. 2)
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42:37As we continue the Surrendered Wife series and read the I Surrender All book, we can't help but take a deeper look into what Jesus says surrendering is and ask ourselves how we can do this in a modern world. Get your Bibles, let's dive in! Download the New Spiced Wife Mobile App: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Google:…
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Ep. 215 Everything You Have For Jesus (Chp 1)
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53:19What does giving everything you have to be a follower of Jesus look like? Peter left his boat right away when he realized who Jesus actually was. What are we willing to leave behind when we understand who Jesus is? Let's talk about it! Download the New Spiced Wife Mobile App: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Google: htt…
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Ep. 214 I Surrender All Book Introduction Recap
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46:58The book club has begun! We are kicking off the introduction to “I Surrender All,” let’s recap! Download the New Spiced Wife Mobile App: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Google: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.puzystfwapl.p2ibq73xapp The Process: How to Overcome ANY Problem: https://spiced-wife-intimat…
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In closing out 2024, let's discuss how to identify and escape the devil's trap so that our days ahead are met with freedom and truth! God wants us to excel in all we do, for His glory, so we must take a moment to learn what could be working against us. Download the New Spiced Wife Mobile App: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id66702…
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Continuing the Surrendered Wife Series, we are wrapping up our focus on Colossians 3. Today's focus is on verses 17-19. We are also answering a wife's submitted question regarding the difference in spending habits between her and her husband. Download the New Spiced Wife Mobile App: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Goog…
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Continuing the Surrendered Wife Series, we are taking a very transparent dive into what has control of our hearts and realizing the power we have to make a change. Our discussion today is coming from Col. 3:15-16, NLT. Download the New Spiced Wife Mobile App: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Google: https://play.google.…
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Today Ashlyn opens with some insight on being a bit softer as a wife and then heads into answering two listener questions: 1- Should I submit to my husband's travel requests? 2- I feel so spiritually empty in my marriage, what do I do? The Process: How to Overcome ANY Problem: https://spiced-wife-intimately.mykajabi.com/offers/odF7DTP6 Download the…
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Ep. 209 What Are You Wearing to the Marriage?
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31:12Continuing the Surrendered Wife series, we delve deeper into walking closely with God by embracing the call to obedience outlined in Scripture—living as true followers of Jesus Christ. In this episode, we focus on Colossians 3:12-14, exploring what it means to be a wife whose identity and actions are rooted in her relationship with Christ. Together…
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As we continue with the Surrendered Wife series, we are taking a deep dive into what it feels like to be a wife seeking to please God but married to a husband who is not doing the same thing. Many wives have written into the show with very serious concerns, some even feeling like they may hate their marriage, but they want to surrender it to God. L…
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Many women long to feel truly happy in their lives and marriages—a desire that's both natural and beautiful. Do you find yourself yearning for deeper happiness, joy, or fulfillment? If so, this episode is a must-listen! In this installment of the Surrendered Wife series, we explore practical, faith-based insights to unlock breakthrough and freedom …
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Today, we kick off the Surrendered Wife series by discussing the biggest obstacles to our ability to surrender our all to Jesus. We don’t just talk about it; we also discuss how to overcome this beast and refuse to lean into condemnation as we grow. Be ready to be challenged in this episode as iron is truly sharpening iron! Get “The Process” and Le…
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Ep 205 New Series: Surrendered Wife (You Can Start Over)
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27:16IT’S A NEW SEASON LADIES!!! Ashlyn kicks off season 8 of the Spiced Wife Podcast in this episode by introducing us to the Surrendered Wife series. If you have felt heavy in your walk lately or even just blah about life and marriage, this episode is the enlightenment you need to assure you that you can start over! God did not create you to stay down…
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Ladies, God wants your husband leading. You are graced to help, and you are needed and valued by God in your marriage; but, God wants your husband leading. Let's talk about the reality in when it's hard to do this, as I share my experience in walking it out. JOIN THE COMMUNITY IN THE SPICED WIFE APP Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/…
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Let's talk about REST! ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife.com DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE APP TODAY: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Google: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.puzystfwapl.p2ibq73xapp FOLLOW ON IG: https://instagram.com/spicedwife?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== FOLLOW ON F…
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Ep. 202 Why Did God Pick A Rib to Make Us??
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31:34ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife.com DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE APP TODAY: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Google: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.puzystfwapl.p2ibq73xapp FOLLOW ON IG: https://instagram.com/spicedwife?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== FOLLOW ON FB: https://www.facebook…
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Ep. 201 How I Quit My 9 to 5... Again... For Good!
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37:29Sharing my testimony of how fixing my marriage opened so many blessings! God wants us to obey His word in how to be a wife. So many prayers are on the edge of being answered, but your obedience in marriage must come first! Links you want to have are below… --------------------- ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife.com DOWNLO…
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You are ONE with your husband just as we are ONE with Christ… lets go deeper into this and even understand how sex plays a part! Links you want to have are below… --------------------- ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife.com DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE APP TODAY: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Go…
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Ep. 199 Where Can You Agree with Your Husband?
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28:51ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife.com DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE APP TODAY: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Google: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.puzystfwapl.p2ibq73xapp FOLLOW ON IG: https://instagram.com/spicedwife?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== FOLLOW ON FB: https://www.facebook…
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ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife.com DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE APP TODAY: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Google: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.puzystfwapl.p2ibq73xapp FOLLOW ON IG: https://instagram.com/spicedwife?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== FOLLOW ON FB: https://www.facebook…
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Please.... protect your children! ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife.com DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE APP TODAY: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Google: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.puzystfwapl.p2ibq73xapp FOLLOW ON IG: https://instagram.com/spicedwife?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== …
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Let’s do a check-in on your year! How are you staying encouraged and focused? Today we are staying edified AND we are learning how to heal from vaginal burning after sex with your husband. Links you want to have are below… --------------------- ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife.com DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE APP TODAY: Appl…
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ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife.com DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE APP TODAY: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Google: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.puzystfwapl.p2ibq73xapp FOLLOW ON IG: https://instagram.com/spicedwife?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== FOLLOW ON FB: https://www.facebook…
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What if we are going about our husband’s weaknesses all wrong? What if God really can do so much more, in us checking us first. In this episode I want to have a heart to heart in the truth about wanting to see change in our husbands. Links you want to have are below… --------------------- ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife…
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What is produced from your sex life? Did you know there were more than one type of Orgasm?? Let’s get fresh fruit in our bedrooms and keep loving Jesus more!! Links you want to have are below… --------------------- ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife.com DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE APP TODAY: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/a…
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If you want to know when something is from God, calculate all its many benefits…. Yes, even including the orgasm! Let’s learn, let’s grow! Links you want to have are below… --------------------- ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife.com DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE APP TODAY: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id667…
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Well…. God said discuss this topic that many can’t stand… let’s do it! Links you want to have are below… --------------------- ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife.com DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE APP TODAY: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Google: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.pu…
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There comes a point in life where you have to do some intentory on whats not working and just flat out do something different. What is that going to be for you? ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife.com DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE APP TODAY: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Google: https://play.googl…
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Being a strong woman is always valuable… but is there such thing as too strong? Can you be so strong that its actually weighing on you and your marriage? Let’s talk about it! Links you want to have are below… --------------------- ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife.com DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE APP TODAY: Apple: https://app…
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Ep. 188 Start Strong with Zero Tolerance & Freedom!
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39:19New Year, New View. Let’s start off strong!!! The show is now back every week on TUESDAY! Links you want to have are below… --------------------- ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife.com DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE APP TODAY: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Google: https://play.google.com/store/app…
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Let's discuss how we can obtain divine direction constantly. We don't have to guess in our life, we can be instructed by God and have peace in what we do. ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife.com DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE APP TODAY: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Google: https://play.google.com/…
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"Why do others seem to have great sex but we don't?" Lets answer some sex questions today! ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife.com DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE APP TODAY: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Google: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.puzystfwapl.p2ibq73xapp FOLLOW ON IG: …
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Ep. 185 Should You Go Against Your Husband's Request?
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46:18What do you do when you are facing a major life decision and your husband wants to go left and you want to go right? He wants a baby...you don't. He wants to rent, you want to buy... How do you deal with any major opposte? In this episode we get deep on understanding good and evil… like really deep. Tune in as I share some of my personal journey as…
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What do you do in those times when your husband wants sex and you want to just rest? Have you stopped to even evaluate your battery life and if you are well rounded and charged up? What needs to be shifted? ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife.com DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE APP TODAY: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spice…
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Ep. 182 Put Your Husband, God, and REST First
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35:54Busy wife…. Are you resting?? Are you putting your husband first or just fitting him in where he can fit in? What is it costing you to not put your marriage first? Start with this video to begin change in your marriage and life. ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife.com DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE APP TODAY: Apple: https://apps.…
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EP. 181 How to Revive Your Husbands Love for You
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36:01Has your marriage been rocky and feeling more like roommates? Do you feel your husband is losing his love for you and you just want to get the spice of love back? I have two simple yet profound tips for you to do to change the love in your marriage! ---------------------------------- ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife.com …
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Have you ever found yourself dreading sex with your husband? You take extra-long showers hoping he will fall asleep before you get out, or you simply roll over to the farthest edge of the bed as possible, praying he will think you are sleep. Speaking from experience, I know what this feels like and it’s honestly a result of life being overwhelmed. …
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Ep. 179 How to Support His (and Your) Dreams
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52:31Ashlyn is answering a wife's question today about how we can support our husband's dreams, but as always there are many points of wisdom here that you can also apply to your desires as well! ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife.com DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE APP TODAY: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232…
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BN: Day 3 - Don't Give Up (Fasting for him)
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26:23We are doing a 3-day fast FOR our husbands. Be sure to download the Spiced Wife App to get more details and listen to this episode for today’s edification and prayer. ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife.com DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE APP TODAY: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Google: https://play…
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BN: Day 2 - Faulty Foundations (Fasting for him)
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48:24We are doing a 3-day fast FOR our husbands. Be sure to download the Spiced Wife App to get more details and listen to this episode for today’s edification and prayer. ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife.com DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE APP TODAY: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Google: https://play…
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BN: Day 1 - Knowing Your Rights (Fasting for him)
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46:04We are doing a 3-day fast FOR our husbands. Be sure to download the Spiced Wife App to get more details and listen to this episode for today’s edification and prayer. ACCESS ALL THE SPICED RESOURCES HERE: https://www.spicedwife.com DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE APP TODAY: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/spiced-wife/id6670232913 Google: https://play…
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