Our mission is to develop relationally powerful people, communities, families and teams through transformational experiences and coactive coaching! We help people "Live Relationally Well", as they experience healthier and deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others. This Podcast is an extension of our mission. We believe that God has designed us to live from Joy in a thriving community. We define Joy as - "the deep knowing, through relational experience, that someone is glad to be ...
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Wisdom Keepers: w/Marlene Allen pt. 2: Elders in the Kingdom Not Just Their Community
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21:40"It's a steady joyful presence, I'm glad to be with you. It's the listening ear, with attunement not judgement.." ~ Marlene Allen Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we are missing a key part and it's nearly impossible. What is the role of elders in community? What does healthy community look like? How…
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Wisdom Keepers: w/Marlene Allen - Deeply Rooted Elders
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25:17"(Elders)... they are not running, they are this steady force,...whenI speak to you,...I am not going anywhere. You might run off, but I will be right here waiting for you when you come back...That's what Elders get to do. They are creating space for people to be there best self." ~ Marlene Allen Elders are so important in building relationally hea…
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Wisdom Keepers: w/Michel Hendricks pt 3 - Elders, Secure Attachment and Multi-ethnic Maturity
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24:14"Attachment is the 'pipe' that maturity is passed from one vessel to another" ~ Michel Henricks Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we are missing a key part and it's nearly impossible. What is the role of elders in community? What does healthy community look like? How do we glean their wisdom? In this…
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Wisdom Keepers: w/Michel Hindricks pt. 2 - Elders, Filling the Holes in Our "Cheese"
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21:07"Maturity is like Swiss Cheese, our maturity has holes... When we only stay with people inner same age group, the community has all the same holes,... Multigenerational community is important because elders can see the holes and fill them. So as a community the block of cheese is one solid block..." ~ Michel Henricks Elders are so important in buil…
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Wisdom Keepers: w/Michel Hendricks- Characteristics of True Elders
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24:00"Elders by definition have a really well developed right brain skill set...they know how to model a secure attachment,...attune to others emotions even if they don't agree with what happened,...very good at seeing the gold in a person that is not readily apparent,...they are not worried about defending their image,...and they naturally act like the…
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Wisdom Keepers: w/Chris & Jen Coursey Pt. 3 - Elders as Gentle Protectors
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17:09"Gentle Protectors are willing to share in the pain that they create...Predators want to put their pain on you so they don't feel any of it." ~ Jen Coursey Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we are missing a key part and it's nearly impossible. What is the role of elders in community? What does health…
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Wisdom Keepers: w/Chris & Jen Coursey Pt. 2- When Elders Lead from Fear
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23:57"The better we get at being comfortable in our emotions, pain, and grieve, it allows us to prioritise creativity over solutions...those solutions are often trying to avoid pain for me or loved ones." ~Jen Coursey Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we are missing a key part and it's nearly impossible. …
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Wisdom Keepers: w/Chris & Jen Coursey - Growing into Elders
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24:11Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we are missing a key part and it's nearly impossible. What is the role of elders in community? What does healthy community look like? How do we glean their wisdom? In this new series, Wisdom Keepers: The Role of Elders in Building Relationally Healthy Community not o…
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Wisdom Keepers: w/Dr. Marcus Warner pt 3 - Stop and Smell the Roses
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26:07Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we are missing a key part and it's nearly impossible. What is the role of elders in community? What does healthy community look like? How do we glean their wisdom? In this new series, Wisdom Keepers: The Role of Elders in Building Relationally Healthy Community not o…
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Wisdom Keepers: w/Dr. Marcus Warner pt 2 - Joyful Multigenerational Community
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25:05"Multigenerational community helps you to not have to go through anything alone and minimizes the level of trauma unless it's a community that is keeping secrets." Dr. Marcus Warner Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we are missing a key part and it's nearly impossible. What is the role of elders in c…
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Wisdom Keepers w/Dr. Marcus Warner - When Things Get To Big
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25:47Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we are missing a key part and it's nearly impossible. What is the role of elders in community? What does healthy community look like? How do we glean their wisdom? In this new series, Wisdom Keepers: The Role of Elders in Building Relationally Healthy Community not o…
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Wisdom Keepers: w/Jim Wilder Pt 3 - Building Something That Will Last
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42:31"I am looking to make all relationships permanent..., Whatever we grow together I want to make sure that it is something we can keep and we can use as an example for other people on how they should live their lives." Dr. Jim Wilder Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we are missing a key part and it's …
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Wisdom Keepers: w/Jim Wilder Pt 2.- Born Predator to Gentle Protector
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26:59"The kingdom of God; we know it's here when Predators or changed into protectors. That is the key sign of transformation. " Dr. Jim Wilder Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we are missing a key part and it's nearly impossible. What is the role of elders in community? What does healthy community look …
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Wisdom Keepers: w/Dr Jim Wilder - The Role of Elders in Building Relationally Healthy Community
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26:24"Elders are no better than anyone else at knowing what to do with new things... but, elder are good at remembering what we've forgotten that was important." Dr. Jim Wilder Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we are missing a key part and it's nearly impossible. What is the role of elders in community? …
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Relational Maturity Revisited: Elder Pt. 3
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34:42Maturity stages build on each other. They have a compounding effect. You cannot fully complete any stage without having completed the one before it, so it's important to go back and check for gaps and work on getting those closed up, so you can more fully be who God created you to be in your current stage of life. The Elder stage of Maturity is the…
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Relational Maturity Revisited: Elder Pt. 2
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44:51Maturity stages build on each other. They have a compounding effect. You cannot fully complete any stage without having completed the one before it, so it's important to go back and check for gaps and work on getting those closed up, so you can more fully be who God created you to be in your current stage of life. The Elder stage of Maturity is the…
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Maturity stages build on each other. They have a compounding effect. You cannot fully complete any stage without having completed the one before it, so it's important to go back and check for gaps and work on getting those closed up, so you can more fully be who God created you to be in your current stage of life. The Elder stage of Maturity is the…
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Relational Maturity Revisited: Parent Pt. 4
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42:00Maturity stages build on each other. They have a compounding effect. You cannot fully complete any stage without having completed the one before it, so it's important to go back and check for gaps and work on getting those closed up, so you can more fully be who God created you to be in your current stage of life. You will know you are at the paren…
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Relational Maturity Revisited: Parent Pt. 3
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32:43Maturity stages build on each other. They have a compounding effect. You cannot fully complete any stage without having completed the one before it, so it's important to go back and check for gaps and work on getting those closed up, so you can more fully be who God created you to be in your current stage of life. You will know you are at the paren…
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Relational Maturity Revisited: Parent Pt 2
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47:47Maturity stages build on each other. They have a compounding effect. You cannot fully complete any stage without having completed the one before it, so it's important to go back and check for gaps and work on getting those closed up, so you can more fully be who God created you to be in your current stage of life. You will know you are at the paren…
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Maturity stages build on each other. They have a compounding effect. You cannot fully complete any stage without having completed the one before it, so it's important to go back and check for gaps and work on getting those closed up, so you can more fully be who God created you to be in your current stage of life. You will know you are at the paren…
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Relational Maturity Revisited: Adult Pt 3.
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40:00Maturity stages build on each other. They have a compounding effect. You cannot fully complete any stage without having completed the one before it, so it's important to go back and check for gaps and work on getting those closed up, so you can more fully be who God created you to be in your current stage of life. You will know when a person has gr…
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Relational Maturity Revisited: Adult Pt. 2
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49:23Maturity stages build on each other. They have a compounding effect. You cannot fully complete any stage without having completed the one before it, so it's important to go back and check for gaps and work on getting those closed up, so you can more fully be who God created you to be in your current stage of life. You will know when a person has gr…
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Maturity stages build on each other. They have a compounding effect. You cannot fully complete any stage without having completed the one before it, so it's important to go back and check for gaps and work on getting those closed up, so you can more fully be who God created you to be in your current stage of life. You will know when a person has gr…
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Relational Maturity Revisited: Child Pt. 4
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49:26Relational maturity is not something the world as a whole talks about. The idea is that at every age and stage of life there are very specific skills that we need to master to be fully mature in that age and stage. This is how we reach our God given potential in every age and stage of life. Do you know someone who: Struggles to do anything hard Doe…
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Relational Maturity Revisited: Child Pt. 3
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42:32Relational maturity is not something the world as a whole talks about. The idea is that at every age and stage of life there are very specific skills that we need to master to be fully mature in that age and stage. This is how we reach our God given potential in every age and stage of life. Do you know someone who: Struggles to do anything hard Doe…
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Relational Maturity Revisited: Child pt. 2
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39:14Relational maturity is not something the world as a whole talks about. The idea is that at every age and stage of life there are very specific skills that we need to master to be fully mature in that age and stage. This is how we reach our God given potential in every age and stage of life. Do you know someone who: Struggles to do anything hard Doe…
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Relational maturity is not something the world as a whole talks about. The idea is that at every age and stage of life there are very specific skills that we need to master to be fully mature in that age and stage. This is how we reach our God given potential in every age and stage of life. Do you know someone who: Struggles to do anything hard Doe…
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Relational Maturity Revisited: Infant Pt. 2
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32:10Relational maturity is not something the world as a whole talks about. The idea is that at every age and stage of life there are very specific skills that we need to master to be fully mature in that age and stage. This is how we reach our God given potential in every age and stage of life. Can you think of people that have trouble receiving, or ma…
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Relational maturity is not something the world as a whole talks about. The idea is that at every age and stage of life there are very specific skills that we need to master to be fully mature in that age and stage. This is how we reach our God given potential in every age and stage of life. Your value is not based on your maturity, but maturity is …
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Relational Maturity: Revisited (Maturity Indicators)
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42:50We define maturity as: Reaching your God given potential in every age and stage of life. It is not a reflection of your Leadership role, your life stage, your age, or your spiritual gifting. Your value is not based on your maturity, but maturity is valuable. A person fully functioning in their God-given potential is a HUGE value to the community. M…
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Table & Well was founded April 1st, 2020 and our mission is to "Develop reationally powerful people, communities, families, and teams so that we can be the safe healthy family of god that the world and we need. We do this though the lense of Relational Maturity. The Life Model and the Maturity Indicators are one of the pillars that have influenced …
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Welcome to season 3 episode 1! We are so glad to be back with you. LIfe invited us to take a pause from recording the podcast. It became a little longer than we anticipated but during that time so much has been revealed to us and we can’t wait to start sharing it with you. In this episode we want to take some time to reintroduce you to us and Table…
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Immanuel Journaling: Deep Attachment with God
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23:07Immanuel God with us. That is his promise to us, that he is with us. Why then is it so hard for us to see, feel, or even sense his presence. Maybe we haven't been taught, or maybe we don't slow down long enough to notice. Regardless of the reason I promise you, it is us not him. So how do we live this life in a way that is with him because He is wi…
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Our brains weren’t designed just to problem solve, or acquire knowledge. Truth is, they were first, and foremost, created to give us the ability to live in relationship, and appreciation is the current on which they run. And it keeps your RCs ON and humming. Appreciation involves the recognition, enjoyment, and full understanding of the value of so…
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"LIFE UNDER, OVER, FROM, and FOR GOD each seeks to use God to achieve some other goal. God is seen as a means to an end. For example, LIFE FROM GOD uses him to supply our material desires. LIFE OVER GOD uses him as the source of principles or laws. LIFE UNDER GOD tries to manipulate God through obedience to secure blessings and avoid calamity. And …
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"LIFE UNDER, OVER, FROM, and FOR GOD each seeks to use God to achieve some other goal. God is seen as a means to an end. For example, LIFE FROM GOD uses him to supply our material desires. LIFE OVER GOD uses him as the source of principles or laws. LIFE UNDER GOD tries to manipulate God through obedience to secure blessings and avoid calamity. And …
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“LIFE UNDER, OVER, FROM, and FOR GOD each seeks to use God to achieve some other goal. God is seen as a means to an end. For example, LIFE FROM GOD uses him to supply our material desires. LIFE OVER GOD uses him as the source of principles or laws. LIFE UNDER GOD tries to manipulate God through obedience to secure blessings and avoid calamity. And …
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“LIFE UNDER, OVER, FROM, and FOR GOD each seeks to use God to achieve some other goal. God is seen as a means to an end. For example, LIFE FROM GOD uses him to supply our material desires. LIFE OVER GOD uses him as the source of principles or laws. LIFE UNDER GOD tries to manipulate God through obedience to secure blessings and avoid calamity. And …
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“LIFE UNDER, OVER, FROM, and FOR GOD each seeks to use God to achieve some other goal. God is seen as a means to an end. For example, LIFE FROM GOD uses him to supply our material desires. LIFE OVER GOD uses him as the source of principles or laws. LIFE UNDER GOD tries to manipulate God through obedience to secure blessings and avoid calamity. And …
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“LIFE UNDER, OVER, FROM, and FOR GOD each seeks to use God to achieve some other goal. God is seen as a means to an end. For example, LIFE FROM GOD uses him to supply our material desires. LIFE OVER GOD uses him as the source of principles or laws. LIFE UNDER GOD tries to manipulate God through obedience to secure blessings and avoid calamity. And …
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“LIFE UNDER, OVER, FROM, and FOR GOD each seeks to use God to achieve some other goal. God is seen as a means to an end. For example, LIFE FROM GOD uses him to supply our material desires. LIFE OVER GOD uses him as the source of principles or laws. LIFE UNDER GOD tries to manipulate God through obedience to secure blessings and avoid calamity. And …
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The Power and Presence of the Table Stories From the Table Part 30
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15:43Join Tennison and Ginelle as they conclude their conversation with their friend Britton Smith. Britton, his wife Michelle and 3 boys, have been on RVing across the country for the past 5 months connecting with other pastors that are on the same journey he found himself, that he is still on. Moving from Pastor to Pioneer. Britton is the director of …
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The Messy Middle of I Don't Know: Stories From the Table Part 29
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25:42Join Tennison and Ginelle as they continue their conversation with their friend Britton Smith. Britton, his wife Michelle and 3 boys, have been on RVing across the country for the past 5 months connecting with other pastors that are on the same journey he found himself, that he is still on. Moving from Pastor to Pioneer. Britton is the director of …
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Pioneering a New Way: Stories From the Table Part 28
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19:24Join Tennison and Ginelle as they begin their conversation with their friend Britton Smith. Britton, his wife Michelle and 3 boys, have been Rving across the country for the past 5 months connecting with other pastors that are on the same journey he found himself, that he is still on. Moving from Pastor to Pioneer. Britton is the director of Pastor…
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Freedom In The Curiosity: Stories From the Table Part 27
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22:09What if there was a place where your gifts and insight were welcomed or even required by community? What if there was a space where you brought what you had and took what you needed? What if in this place community equaled family? What if I told you this place existed? It is called the Table! Join Tennison, Ginelle and Bethany conclude their conver…
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More Questions Than Answers: Stories From the Table Part 26
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20:36What if we could create a space where safety, identity, belonging, and connection resided? What if every time you walked in the room everyone was happy to see you? What if there was a place where your gifts and insight were welcomed or even required by community? What if there was a space where you brought what you had and took what you needed? Wha…
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Oreo's and the Table: Stories From the Table Part 25
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19:06What if we could create a space where safety, identity, belonging, and connection resided? What if every time you walked in the room everyone was happy to see you? What if there was a place where your gifts and insight were welcomed or even required by community? What if there was a space where you brought what you had and took what you needed? Wha…
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From Strangers to Belonging: Stories From the Table Part 24
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18:51You know you are in a household.......if someone moves more quietly when you are asleep, ...If people know things about you that you do not know yourself, and if you did know you would seek to hide, ... If you sometimes dream of running away so you wouldn't be so well known, ...If your return from a long trip sparks a spontaneous celebration. Are y…
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100 Generations and the Lineage of Love: Stories From the Table Part 23
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16:56You know you are in a household.......if someone moves more quietly when you are asleep, ...If people know things about you that you do not know yourself, and if you did know you would seek to hide, ... If you sometimes dream of running away so you wouldn't be so well known, ...If your return from a long trip sparks a spontaneous celebration. Are y…
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