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Family Matters

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Want to learn about Marriage and Family Life in Islam? Then tune into Family Matters - the podcast for those who are serious about their deen! From light hearted topics to more serious discussions on every aspect of family life, Family Matters will help you reconnect with your deen and give you practical ways to work towards a more harmonious home. Brought to you by Pure Matrimony - The World's Largest Matrimonial Service for Practising Muslims. Try Pure Matrimony TODAY! Just go to: http://p ...
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Getting married is tough for the vast majority of Muslims in the West. We know because we’ve been there. My (Zaid) journey spanned nearly nine years. It was filled with rejections and self-doubt. While I (Hiba) didn't know there was a journey to be on in the first place. After we got married we decided to create something different to help single Muslims complete their deen. And so our matchmaking service Halal Match was born. After a few years of interviewing singles, a friend suggested we ...
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"Muslim Matchmaker" is making waves, and we’re diving deep into it. In this episode, we break down whether the show hits or misses when it comes to Islamic courtship. Does it reflect our values, or are there some glaring mismatches? We chat about the show's ideas and how it stacks up against other matchmaking shows. Does the flashy aesthetic add an…
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Starting over after a breakup or divorce? We know it’s not easy, but you’re not alone. In this episode, we sit down with therapist Sarah Sultan to talk about what it really takes to heal, grow, and move forward with confidence. We discuss how to recognize red flags you might have missed the first time around and how to rebuild your self-worth so yo…
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If you’ve ever downloaded a Muslim 'dating' app full of hope, only to find yourself drowning in awkward chats, ghosting, and people who don’t seem to know why they’re there… we get it. It’s exhausting. In this episode, we’re talking about the real struggles of apps; the disappointments, the confusion, and the moments that make you want to delete th…
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The Charmer Who Disappeared – A Tale of Manipulation 🎙️ In this gripping episode of Behind the Match: Real Stories of Deception and Discovery, Sr. Fathima Farooqi unpacks the chilling reality of a suitor who seemed too good to be true—because he was. A smooth talker with grand philosophies on life, love, and marriage, he painted an irresistible vis…
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Today we're spilling the tea on how social media is turning our brains into mush when it comes to marriage expectations. From scrolling through picture-perfect weddings to comparing our own love lives to influencer highlight reels. We’ve all been there, feeling FOMO because your friend’s husband just bought her a Ferrari, while you’re getting excit…
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Gut Feelings Never Lie: A Divorced Sister’s Matchmaking Experience 🎙️ In this eye-opening episode of Behind the Match: Real Stories of Deception and Discovery, Sr. Fathima Farooqi shares the story of a divorced sister’s courageous journey to navigate red flags while searching for a spouse. Explore how instincts, boundaries, and accountability play …
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In this episode, we’re diving into the classic “I have a career, but I’m not paying for anything” dilemma. You know, the one where women are out here making bank, but somehow, it’s still all on the man to cover the bills. We’re keeping it real and exploring the balance (or lack thereof) between having a career and contributing to the household fina…
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In this episode, we’re joined by Habeeb Akande, a sex educator and Muslim erotologist, to challenge outdated views on intimacy in Islam. He’s here to remind us of the true Islamic teachings on relationships. Think consent, mutual respect, and yes, female pleasure, and how cultural norms and misinformation have twisted our understanding of intimacy.…
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What does it mean to lead in a marriage? For men, it’s not about being bossy; it’s about responsibility, humility, and knowing when to step up. For women, it’s about recognizing those qualities before you commit. In this episode, we explore the Prophet's leadership in his family and how it sets the gold standard for modern Muslim marriages. We’ll t…
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In this episode, we dive into the awkward, and sometimes painful journey of figuring that out. From emotional maturity to basic life skills (yes, knowing how to cook counts), we’re keeping it real and relatable. Spoiler: If you think ‘romantic’ means sending memes at 2 a.m., you might want to tune in. We’re sharing stories, tips, and a few laughs t…
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In this episode, we dive into the impact of trauma on single Muslims, especially how past experiences shape relationships. A trauma-informed coach joins us; Hana Alasry who shares insights on the importance of hope in healing and how the Prophet (PBUH) navigated immense personal loss with resilience, trusting in Allah’s Qadr. We also discuss how sm…
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In this episode, we dive into the concept of soulmates; are they just a rom-com myth, or is there something deeper? We explore the idea from an Islamic perspective, discuss the role of qadr (divine decree), and unpack why "waiting for Mr./Mrs. Perfect" might be holding you back. Spoiler alert: marriage isn't the end of the story. Join us for a fun,…
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In this episode, we dive into the Quran’s only detailed proposal story—Prophet Musa (AS) and his journey from being a refugee to finding a wife. It’s a story filled with timeless lessons about character, divine timing, and how a simple act of kindness (like watering sheep!) can change your life. We loved reflecting on how this story connects to wha…
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In this powerful episode of Are High Standards Keeping You Single? Let’s Rethink Marriage, Sister Fathima Farooqi dives deep into the heart of spouse selection: the importance of prioritizing a practising Muslim. What truly differentiates a practising Muslim from someone who simply identifies as one? Drawing on wisdom from Umar ibn al-Khattab (RA),…
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This week we confront the notorious Haram Police! 🚔 From awkward aunties and clapping controversies to MSAs that outdo Islamic rulings themselves, we share our personal run-ins with this self-appointed moral authority. 🎻 Spoiler: classical music, theater, and even holding hands while married aren’t safe from judgment. We discuss how culture complic…
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Family and Culture: How Much Should They Shape Your Choice of Spouse? In this compelling episode of Are High Standards Keeping You Single? Let’s Rethink Marriage, Sister Fathima Farooqi tackles one of the most sensitive and impactful topics in spouse selection: the role of family and culture. How much influence should they have? Where should we dra…
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In this episode, we take you behind the scenes of our matchmaking process, revealing the immense effort and dedication we pour into finding meaningful, compatible matches for single Muslims. From in-depth discovery calls and personalized assessments to carefully planned double dates, we share how our hands-on, halal approach goes above and beyond t…
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In this insightful episode of Compromise vs. Settling: Striking the Right Balance, Sr. Fathima Farooqi explores a topic that resonates with anyone seeking a life partner: how do you distinguish between reasonable compromises and settling for less than you deserve? ✨ What You’ll Learn: 🌟 The key differences between compromising and settling in relat…
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Unlock the secrets of forming successful relationships as we bring you an exciting conversation with the esteemed Imam Navaid Aziz. Together, we explore the intricate dynamics of emotional intelligence in relationship matching. This episode promises to provide valuable insights into recognizing emotional intelligence in a potential spouse, a key de…
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Beyond the Checklist: What Should Truly Matter? 🎙️ In this thought-provoking episode of Family Matters by Pure Matrimony, Sr. Fathima Farooqi unpacks the “checklist culture” many of us fall into when seeking a spouse. Are we focusing too much on worldly traits and overlooking the deeper qualities that build lasting marriages? ✨ What You’ll Learn: 🌟…
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What if a simple piece of paper could dictate the course of your life's most personal decision? Today we unravel the world of Biodatas, questioning whether this 'marriage resume' truly captures the essence of a person or merely reflects outdated societal norms. From personal stories of arranged marriage proposals to the cultural expectations that s…
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This podcast episode explores the balance between keeping high standards in marriage and knowing when to prioritize what truly matters—deen and character. Sr. Fathima Farooqi shares real-life stories, Islamic teachings, and timeless lessons from the life of the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) to challenge the superficial criteria society often emphasizes. Wit…
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In this episode, we join you on the listening side, as Nida K. shares her twenty-year journey searching for marriage. She opens up about the challenges she faced, the lessons she learned, and her hopes for the future. If you're someone on the journey to marriage, this episode will relate to you in one way or another. If you have a story to share, w…
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Why are so many single Muslims still struggling to find a match despite an ocean of options? Using relatable analogies and personal experiences, we explore why having a plethora of matrimonial avenues doesn’t necessarily make the quest for a partner any easier. Is it a lack of awareness? Misunderstanding how to leverage these resources? We untangle…
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Join us as we welcome Baba Ali, the man who got us married and the founder of Half Our Deen, a platform revolutionizing matchmaking for Muslims. Baba Ali shares his entertaining and insightful journey, challenging societal norms and debunking the stigma around online matrimonial services. With a mix of humor and wisdom, we explore how finding love …
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Zahra Hassan, a seasoned relationship coach with a transformative personal journey, shares her insights on building fulfilling marriages. After navigating the complexities of her divorce and remarriage, Zahra reveals the essential ingredients for choosing the right partner. Join us on this truly inspirational and informative episode to learn how to…
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In this episode we navigate the challenges of marrying someone from one’s home country, discussing the stigma and drawbacks, such as long-distance hurdles and the intricacies of the immigration processes. We stress the importance of self-awareness and assessing one's cultural connections when contemplating such a significant life decision. With an …
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Prepare to revolutionize your understanding of intimacy in marriage with insights from Amirah Zaky, a faith-aligned sex educator and vaginismus expert. Amirah shares her personal struggles, shedding light on the significant gaps in sex education within the Muslim community. Through her journey, she highlights the vital importance of educating coupl…
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Our story started with no fireworks but blossomed into a deep connection built on shared values and mutual understanding. Discover how we went from "this is a waste of time" to finding joy in our similarities, and learn why patience and realistic expectations might just be the key to your next great relationship. Today we challenge the common misco…
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Today we share the heartwarming story of one of our quickest matches, now happily engaged but facing family resistance to an early nikah. This couple's story sheds light on the broader challenges many face when trying to harmonize tradition with faith. From the struggle to maintain formal interactions to the family fears surrounding early nikahs, w…
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Is food compatibility a dealbreaker in your relationship? It certainly wasn't for us! Join us as we open up about our interracial marriage story. From navigating the intricate cultural differences to language challenges, our relationship proves that shared values and goals can triumph over any cultural barriers. We also unravel the broader hesitati…
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What if the love of your life is halfway across the world—would you still give it a shot? Join us as we unravel the complexities of long-distance relationships, sharing our 14-month LDR story. We tackle the common fears and misconceptions that often hold people back from pursuing such partnerships. From the anxiety of moving away from family to the…
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If you're a parent with a son/daughter at the age of marriage, then this episode is for you. In this one we explore the complex dynamics between parental approval and the matchmaking journey, sharing personal stories and client experiences. Tune in for invaluable advice to parents on upholding their child's happiness and rights, grounded in faith a…
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What if the key to finding your perfect match on matrimonial websites lies in the way you present yourself? In this episode we uncover the art and science behind creating a compelling matrimonial profile. We break down the essential elements of authenticity and how presenting your true self can attract the right people. Learn how to articulate your…
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Navigating vulnerability, especially in marriage, can be daunting. We tackle this head-on by discussing real-life examples and drawing wisdom from Dr. Brené Brown's powerful insights. Have you ever struggled with showing your true self due to past traumas or rejections? You're not alone. We highlight the fine line between being too open and too gua…
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