Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at ...
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We are often distracted in life and never really dive deep into the real foundation of self improvement, goal achieving, and wellbeing. - Join our team of experts every week as we discuss the real facets of manhood. Topics like: How to develop more self esteem, self love, deeper relationships. How to improve our wellbeing, mental toughness, resilience, and productivity. How to develop critical skills, become better leaders, expand our careers/business, create financial security and contribut ...
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Was your Valentine’s Day… not what you were hoping for? Maybe you’re dealing with separation or divorce. Maybe your wife is interested in someone else. Maybe you were hoping for intimacy that didn’t happen. It’s normal and natural to be disappointed. And, there are ways to deal with that disappointment that will make things WORSE… And ways to deal …
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Has your wife told you “You make everything about you!” What was your response? Did you give her examples of how you don’t make everything about you? Did you get mad and walk away? If you did either of these… You made it about you! I’ve done this plenty of times, and so have the guys in my program. But, we don’t have to do this. We can break out of…
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From the Archives: 10 Turn-Ons & 10 Turn-Offs That Captivate or Repel Men
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29:40Have you ever wondered what truly turns a man on and the deal-breakers that can leave him cold? In this episode, we delve into the laws of attraction, exploring what truly captivates men and what quickly extinguishes their interest. From the 10 biggest turn-ons to the top 10 turn-offs, we uncover the factors that attract men the most and those that…
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How healthy is your marriage? Spiritually, do you feel a sense of mission and purpose, individually and as a couple? Mentally do you feel that you are both open to learning from each other, able to challenge your own beliefs, and take an appropriate stand? Emotionally can you name, feel and release emotions in health ways? Physically, are you in go…
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#95: Why Going Back to School in Your 30s, 40s, or Beyond Can Be a Game-Changer for Your Career
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37:16Is it ever too late to go back to school? In this episode, B.I.G Dreamz and T Rex dive into the decision to return to education later in life and why continuous learning could be key to long-term success. B.I.G Dreamz shares his journey of going back to school after a decade in the six-figure income bracket—why he made the choice, what he’s studyin…
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This week we are launching the first group of the Strong Men Strong Marriages Membership! This will be The Alpha Group. The group that helps grow us to 500 men. The group that helps shape the membership into something that helps men become the Christ-like, strong and loving leaders of their homes that they were meant to be. The group that leads the…
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From the Archives: From Dreams to Reality: Travel Hacks & Tips with Seasoned Traveler Jacki Mercer
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53:30Are you dreaming of starting your travel adventure but don’t know where to begin? In this episode, T Rex and J Dragon are joined by Jacki Mercer, a seasoned traveler who has spent the past 18 years living around the world. Jacki, a transformational coach, podcast producer, and podcast co-host, shares her journey from where she started to her curren…
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How To Be The Ultimate Provider For Your Family
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16:01Preside, provide, protect. You may have heard of these are the main roles of the man of the house. And, they are very important. However, we usually just think if providing and protecting physically. While having enough money and protecting the home from invaders is important… There’s something even MORE important to provide to your wife and kids. …
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From the Archives: Part 2: Actor, Producer, & Oncologist Dr. Roy Vongtama with Strategies for a Balanced, Happier Life
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44:50We are back for Part two with Dr. Roy Vongtama, a board-certified radiation oncologist, actor, and producer, as he continues with transformative stories from his patients that have profoundly shifted his perspective. He explores the keys to genuine happiness, providing practical tips for a balanced, fulfilling life. Sharing his definition of health…
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Is Your Wife More Affectionate With The Kids Than With You?
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14:09Who gets more hugs from your wife? You or your kids? Who gets more snuggling or even kisses? If it’s your kids, it can be VERY frustrating. Maybe you’ve even brought this up with your wife, only to hear things like “it’s different with the kids” or “I’m just not that into physical touch.” Today you’ll learn the root cause of why your wife is more p…
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From the Archives: Dr. Roy Vongtama: Oncologist, Actor, & Producer on Mind-Body Health & Integrating Western & Eastern Medicine
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42:39Ever wondered what practices you can do that will leave you with a healthier, happier body and mind? Join us for an enlightening conversation with Dr. Roy Vongtama, a board-certified radiation oncologist, actor, and producer. Dubbed the real-life Dr. McDreamy, Dr. Roy brings a unique perspective on health, mental well-being, and the integration of …
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Do you feel like your wife is against you? Does she seem to always be on the kids’ side of things and not yours? Do you sometimes feel alone in your marriage? If so, this episode is for you. Learn why wondering “whose side is your wife on…” Is a waste of time. And what to do instead. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get …
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From the Archives: Part 2 with Dr. Mike Frazier MD: Mastering Communication for Stronger Relationships
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45:57Are you interested in mastering communication in your relationship? Join us for part two of our conversation with Dr. Mike Frazier MD, host of the "Strong Men, Strong Marriages" podcast. As a renowned psychiatrist specializing in neuroscience, Dr. Mike offers invaluable insights into fostering intimacy and effective communication within relationshi…
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How To Come Alive with Bobby Hulme-Lippert
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32:20Today I have a special guest and friend, Bobby Hulme-Lippert. Bobby was a successful pastor, then felt a call to help others find what “helps them come alive.” Check out today’s episode if you’re questioning whether your current career path is exactly what you’re meant to be doing in the world. And learn more about Bobby and his coaching work here …
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If you haven't yet, it's time to join the email list! You'll only hear about our updated group program opening at the end of January through our email list. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io P.P.S. Making $250K plus per year and want…
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Do you want a better marriage in 2025? One full of connection, laughter, fun and intimacy? You CAN do it. It starts with a strong connection with God. Then a great relationship with yourself. Then learning the trust, communication and intimacy skills to take your marriage to a connection that’s even beyond what it was when you were first married. L…
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#94: Wrapping Up the Year & Winning 2025—Mindset, Goals, & Growth
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44:30Are you ready to step into the new year and make it your most intentional one yet? In this episode, the guys catch up on their past month—celebrating big wins like filming a documentary, wrapping up a first semester, and making moves on socials—while sharing the lessons and challenges that came with it. But the real focus is on looking ahead and se…
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Call For A Spiritual Spotter [Thursday Challenge]
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1:38Feel overwhelmed? Feel like you can’t act the way you want to act? Pray for a spiritual spotter to come help you! And let me know how it goes. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io P.P.S. Making $250K plus per year and want to work more …
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Responding in new, Christ-like ways to your wife and kids is hard work. In fact, sometimes it’s harder than we can currently handle. If your wife is critical, your son gets attitude with you, or you’re just feeling tired… Acting in a strong and loving way may be out of reach. That’s when you can use Spiritual Spotters to help you do more than you c…
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From the Archives: Strategies on How You Can Build a Stronger Marriage with Psychiatrist & Podcast Host Dr. Mike Frazier MD - Part 1
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38:36What if there were simple yet powerful ways to strengthen and restore intimacy in your relationship? In this episode, we welcome Dr. Mike Frazier MD, host of the "Strong Men, Strong Marriages" podcast, a renowned psychiatrist with expertise in neuroscience and relationship dynamics. Dr. Mike tackles marriage challenges, from expectations around sex…
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Move 1 Thing From Your "To Do" List To Your Calendar
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1:40And then get it done! Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. And then let me know how it goes! Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io P.P.S. Making $250K plus per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his te…
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Do you have a long “to do” list? Do you feel like you have too much to do with too little time? Does it feel like you’ll never get everything done that you need to? Today you’ll learn how to get rid of your “to do” list… And get more done in less time with less stress. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, H…
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From the Archives: Tips to Help You Elevate Your Health, Testosterone Levels, & Immune System
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35:54What if a few simple tweaks in your daily routine could significantly impact your health? In this episode, we focus on health with valuable insights and practical tips you can implement in your life right away. From the surprising benefits of gargling saltwater to the connection between testosterone and giving blood, we explore a range of topics de…
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Follow the 4 steps to deal with a strong negative emotion, and let me know how it goes! Step 1 - Recognize it was from Satan Step 2 - Pray for help through it Step 3 - Identify the lie and correct it Step 4 - Release the anger physically Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Let me know how it goes! Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list an…
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The Secret To Dealing With Strong Negative Emotions
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17:33This week I had an attack of extreme anger. Thankfully, I was able to get through it without exploding by following a few simple steps. Step 1 - Recognize it was from Satan Step 2 - Pray for help through it Step 3 - Identify the lie and correct it Step 4 - Release the anger physically Learn more about how this works in today’s episode. Watch on You…
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From the Archives: Beckham, Stallone, & Schwarzenegger: Common Mindsets & Beliefs That Led Them to Greatness
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47:29Ever thought about what it takes to achieve greatness and leave a lasting legacy? In this episode, the hosts dive into the extraordinary lives of three iconic figures—David Beckham, Sylvester Stallone, and Arnold Schwarzenegger—unraveling the common threads that define greatness. As role models who shaped the hosts' formative years, the trio reflec…
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What's 1 rule you could write and live that would change your marriage patterns for the better? Write it out today! Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io P.P.S. Making $250K plus per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike a…
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You have negative patterns that are hurting your marriage. Not listening. Invalidating. Pushing conversations when they don’t need to be pushed. Letting your wife walk all over you. The good news is, you can break those patterns. And setting a few simple rules can help you do that. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get th…
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From the Archives: Unlocking Tantra With Shiva J: A Tantra Educator's Guide to Connection, Healing, & Transformation
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49:22What if unlocking a deeper connection with yourself and your partner was a skill you could cultivate? In this episode, we explore the intricate world of Tantra with the knowledgeable Shiva J, a certified Tantra Educator and transformative empowerment coach. With a diverse background encompassing Kundalini Yoga, somatic bodywork, life coaching, and …
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Show Gratitude For Your Wife Today [Thursday Challenge]
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1:29On Thanksgiving, let’s be grateful for our wives. No matter how bad things are right now, there’s SOMETHING you can be grateful for. Find that gratitude (ask God for help)... And share it with your wife. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongme…
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If you find yourself unhappy in your marriage… Resentful.. Frustrated… Wondering if you married the right person… This episode is for you. You’ll learn how to start feeling better right away… And by doing that… Become more attractive to your wife. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attracti…
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Partner With God In Being Generous [Thursday Challenge]
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1:35Ask yourself today: How can I partner with God to use the time and money He’s given me to bless others? Then go do it! Let me know how it goes. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io P.P.S. Making $250K plus per year and want to work more…
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If you’re like me, you’re very concerned about things being fair. You work hard for the money and respect you get… And you expect others to do the same. When they don’t work as hard as you… But still get money or respect… You can get upset. Jealous. Angry. Frustrated. Are those fruits of the Spirit? Are they part of the Abundant Life God wants for …
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#93: Comedian AJ Foster: Finding Humor & Gratitude in Life's Everyday Moments
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35:44How do you balance gratitude with the drive for more? In this episode, B.I.G Dreamz dives into this question with standup comedian AJ Foster, who’s toured with Jay Pharoah and appeared on Kevin Hart’s LOL Network and MTV. AJ opens up about his journey in comedy, sharing how he finds gratitude even while chasing big ambitions. From the leap of faith…
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Self-Check: Am I Trusting God Or Money More? [Thursday Challenge]
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2:07Ask yourself a few quick questions: -Do I spend more time thinking about money… or about God? -Do I feel more security from my money and investments… or from trusting God to provide for me? -If my assets were stolen, what would my reaction be? If you find that you are trusting money for your sense of safety and security more than God… There’s a qui…
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I’ve had a personal shift that I wanted to share with you today. I realized that I was trusting money for my security vs trusting God. Since I’ve made the shift, I feel: -Much more peace -Much lighter -Much more grateful And, God is blessing me financially as well. Learn how to check if you’re trusting money too much… And what to do about it… In to…
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#92: Celebrating Two Years of the Manhood Experiment: Reflections & Lessons Learned
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43:02Two years in—how far have we come, and what’s next? This episode marks a major milestone: the podcast’s two-year anniversary! What started with a microphone, a laptop, and a vision from three Leos has grown into over 100 episodes, diving deep into what it means to be a man in the 21st century. In this special reflection, the guys look back at the p…
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31 Days To Become A Better Man with Joel Gandara
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21:51Joel has become a good friend of mine over the past few months. Today you’ll learn about his story… And his program, 31 Days To Become A Better Man… That has helped men apply business, financial, physical and relationship principles… To create BIG transformations in just 31 days. Hear some of the inspiring stories in today’s episode… Watch on YouTu…
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I had a big failure as a husband and father a few days ago. I met negativity with negativity… and damaged relationships badly in the process. I spent the day with God yesterday and He helped show me a better way… And how to accomplish it… Learn how in today’s episode… Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, Ho…
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#91: Inside J Dragon’s Ironman Journey—The Ultimate Test of Endurance
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40:13What drives someone to take on an Ironman? In this episode, J Dragon shares his journey of completing Ironman 70.3 North Carolina—a goal he set out to conquer just three months ago. From signing up to crossing the finish line, he breaks down the realities of training: the early mornings, the nutrition adjustments, and the mindset shifts needed to t…
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Today, find a way to reverse the invalidation triple threat. Let your wife know you did something wrong (invalidated her)... That you can understand how she would feel (unheard, unseen, unsafe)... And that you can understand how she could think a certain way (that she’s not important to you, that you think you’re better than her, etc.)... And let m…
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A few weeks back we talked about the Invalidation Triple Threat. That’s when you tell your wife: -She’s wrong for what she’s thinking -She’s wrong for what she’s feeling -You’re right This causes her to close her heart… and body… off from you. We all do this sometimes, and luckily we can reverse it by reversing those 3 steps: -Tell her how you were…
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Stop A Marriage Fight This Week [Thursday Challenge]
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1:26Tuesday you learned how to stop a marriage fight by… Step 1 - Notice the anger Step 2 - Release the anger Step 3 - Listen or walk away Now, try it and see how it goes! Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io P.P.S. Making $250K plus per ye…
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3 Steps To Stop A Marriage Fight... And Create More Intimacy
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18:32My wife and I got in a fight last night… And it reminded me of 3 steps I can take in the future to step out of the “who’s right” pattern… Creating less safety and closed hearts… And step into a pattern that allows more connection and intimacy…. Step 1 - Notice the anger Step 2 - Release the anger Step 3 - Listen or walk away Watch on YouTube here. …
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#90: Want to Level Up Your Dating Game? Expert Dating Coach Gracie Pleschourt Tells You How
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1:10:53Resources Mentioned: Gracie Pleschourt's Social Media Instagram (@datingwithgracie) Tiktok (@datingwithgracie) Two ways men can work with Gracie: Option 1: Dating Profile Audit Book your 1:1 call with Gracie and she will review your dating profile with you & help make it stand out/get more matches with attractive women. www.self-madeu.com/offers/nq…
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Respond To Your Wife's Anger In A New Way [Thursday Challenge]
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1:32So you learned that getting mad back, the invalidation triple threat and trying to make your wife happy won’t work. Instead, try… Responding with kindness… Serving her because you want to (going the extra mile)... Or just saying “no.” And let me know how it goes. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Y…
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When your wife gets mad at you for something, most men either… Get mad back… Tell their wife she’s wrong and justify themselves (invalidation triple threat)... Or tuck tail and just try to make her happy. Unfortunately, all of these lead to disconnection and lack of intimacy. Learn what to do instead… in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. http…
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#89: From Risk to Reward: The Founders of Supreme Nutrition on Building a Business with Heart
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48:02How do you build a successful business while creating something truly unique? In this episode, J Dragon sits down with Dave Olit and Luke Rimkus, the dynamic duo behind Supreme Nutrition, to explore their inspiring founder’s journey. They share how they transformed a simple supplement shop into a thriving brand with six locations, building more tha…
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Relationships are built by… Talking to people Spending time together Doing things together To build a relationship with Jesus, you need to do the same things. Choose 1 to do this week. And let me know how it goes. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http:…
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The Recipe To Be Blessed In Your Life And Marriage
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21:02Do you feel like you’re doing what God wants you to do in your marriage… Putting your wife first, serving her, losing so she can win… But you don’t feel blessed by God for those efforts? In fact, you just feel resentful? Learn today what Jesus was REALLY saying in his Beatitudes (according to The Divine Conspiracy by Dallas Willard) So you can find…
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