A podcast focused on helping you dig deep into the Bible so you can find greater hope, assurance, and confidence through the shifting sands of life. Join us for our weekly lessons.
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New Life Live! is America’s #1 Christian counseling call-in podcast. As a radio program that started in 1988, many people have received help. The hosts are counselors and psychologists answering callers questions about all areas of relationships, addiction and mental health, and how faith is impacted. Visit our website at newlife.com, or call us at 800-639-5433.
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Betrayal is traumatic, and those who have been betrayed by partners living secret lives of sexual addiction deserve to be empowered and supported with knowledge and resources to allow them to move from shock through grief and into growth. On Betrayal Recovery Radio, our host, Dr. Jake Porter, lays out important topics for both sex addicts and their betrayed partners through conversations leading to hope and healing. Betrayal Recovery Radio is the official podcast of The Association of Partne ...
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Let's drive in the slow lane on Sunday mornings. Pour yourself a cup of coffee or tea and just take a deep breath. Are you searching for something interesting to listen to that can be uplifting? Or, offer you a new perspective about the world? You have landed in the right place. I love plants, the arts, and living on this big blue/green planet Earth too. So join me on Sunday mornings to brighten your day with new knowledge or just light, fun educational entertainment. I just got my hot cuppa ...
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The Delco Young Democast features news, interviews, tomfoolery, and the conversations that we want to hear about politics and society. Covering everything from Media to Harrisburg to Washington DC. Brought to you by the Delaware County (PA) Young Democrats.
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Topics: Love, Divorce, Drug Addiction, Custody, Intimacy, Forgiveness, Regret, Health Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Becky Brown Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill talks about the fours types of love and how to redeem Valentine’s Day. Should I reach out and apologize to my ex-husband? I have been sober for 2yrs and haven’t seen my daughter fo…
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Topics: Contentment, Fear, Anxiety, Depression, Triggers, Christian Walk, Pleasers, Avoiders, Intimacy Hosts: Brian Perez, Chris Williams, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Chris discusses fighting for contentment and how rage-baiting pulls us into discontentment and fear. What should I do if I was injured from a fall and am struggling with anx…
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Scott continues the study of Romans, focusing on the themes of impartiality in God's judgment and the concept of conscience. He begins by addressing common questions about the fate of those who have never heard of Jesus, setting the stage for a deep discussion about God's fairness and the standards by which all humanity will be judged. Romans 2 is …
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Topics: Parenting, Counseling, Siblings, Estrangement, Guilt, Affairs, Divorce, Christian Walk Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice encourages parents to model humility and confession with their kids as an underutilized parenting power tool. How can I tell if a counselor is psychologically …
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Topics: Forgiveness, Getting Unstuck, Grief, Divorce, Dating, Teens, Marijuana Hosts: Brian Perez, Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions & More: Becky shares about getting stuck in unforgiveness. How can I deal with family members who dismiss my grief after losing my husband four years ago to COVID? I’m twice divorced and would like to sta…
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Topics: Negative Patterns, Autism, Triggers, Weight Issues, Grief, Insomnia, Estrangement, Adult Children, Salvation, Finances Hosts: Brian Perez, Marc Cameron, Chris Williams Caller Questions & More: Marc encourages us to do an autopsy on our last relationship so we don’t misdiagnose what went wrong. My autistic son and husband trigger each other;…
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Topics: Stress, Negative Thoughts, Getting Unstuck, Adult Children, Divorce, Work Issues Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Becky Brown Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jacqui discusses vicarious stress from negative news and social media, and what to do instead of doomscrolling. How do I get over my soulmate abusing me and moving on? I don’t …
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Topics: Gaslighting, Suicide, Depression, Parent Issues, Retirement, Intimacy, Emotional Affairs Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions & More: Dr. Sheri shares a story from her first marriage that demonstrates gaslighting and blame shifting. My 17yoson is struggling with suicidal ideation and wrote a note say…
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Scott continues the study of Romans as he Chapter 2:5-8, focusing on the themes of God’s wrath, righteous judgment, and the balance between faith and works. He also reflects on the transient nature of time, encouraging listeners to consider how they invest their time and energy in light of eternal judgments and rewards promised in the scriptures. H…
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Topics: Life Recovery, Emotional Abuse, Medical Issues, Abortion, Politics, Guilt, Engagement Hosts: Brian Perez, Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions & More: Becky discusses 6 steps to work your recovery. How do I stay with my abusive husband of 40yrs? I was on the verge of leaving, but then he received a diagnosis of Parkinson’s a…
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Topics: Communication, In-laws, Drug Addiction, Sexual Abuse, Siblings, Forgiveness, Schizophrenia, Adult Children Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Marc discusses our first language: body language. How do I deal with my son-in-law? He has either borderline or bipolar disorder and lives in my house. I overc…
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Topics: Anxiety, Adult Children, Suicide, Christian Walk, PTSD, Engagement, Physical Abuse Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice shares how to transform anxiety into a superpower. My 21yo son doesn’t have a job; what’s the best way to open a dialogue with him? I have bipolar disorder, and now I’m terr…
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Topics: Evil, PTSD, Depression, Divorce, Guilt, Worry, Anxiety, Alcohol, Self Worth, Pleaser, Dating, Dementia Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses suicidal empathy, when we refuse to acknowledge that evil exists in the world. Do I have PTSD or depression? I’ve been struggling for 14yrs af…
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Topics: Prayer, Work Issues, Retirement, Adult Children, Medication, Addictions, Anxiety, Christian Walk, Self Worth Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice offers insight to consider when it feels like God is being slow to answer prayers. I am under a lot of stress with my remote job and don’t feel I h…
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Building True Intimacy | with Dan Drake and The Raabsmith's (Part 2)
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41:56Welcome to Betrayal Recovery Radio. I’m Dr. Jake Porter, and today, I’m thrilled to be joined by the authors of Building True Intimacy, a powerful book that lays out a roadmap for restoring relationships after betrayal. In this episode, we dive into the journey of moving from devastation to a thriving partnership, and how to develop the "Intimacy P…
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Scott continues his study of Romans, providing an in-depth interpretation of the Apostle Paul's teachings on sin, righteousness, and God's judgment. He explains how the spirit of God reveals both his righteousness and wrath, emphasizing the universal nature of sin and humanity's need for repentance. He brings a fresh perspective on understanding th…
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Topics: Triggers, Adult Children, Affairs, Narcissists, Separation, Stroke, Medication, Dating, Christian Walk Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jacqui discusses why we should be curious and not furious when triggered. What are my next steps after my daughter admitted she committed adultery in…
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Topics: Anxiety, Depression, Alcohol, Marijuana, Sexual Integrity, Pornography, Adult Children, Finances Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions & More: Chris discusses low-grade depression called dysthymia and how lifestyle affects it. I drink too much, so my Christian friend told me to try marijuana; what else can I …
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Topics: Stress, Fear, Anxiety, Panic Attacks, Sexual Abuse, Childhood Trauma, Estrangement, Father Issues Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Marc discusses stress and how Jesus dealt with it. I panic when I drive, and it’s negatively impacting my life; what should I do? How do I get over my sister sexually a…
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Building True Intimacy | with Dan Drake and The Raabsmith's (Part 1)
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54:02Welcome to Betrayal Recovery Radio. I’m Dr. Jake Porter, and today, I’m thrilled to be joined by the authors of Building True Intimacy, a powerful book that lays out a roadmap for restoring relationships after betrayal. In this episode, we dive into the journey of moving from devastation to a thriving partnership, and how to develop the "Intimacy P…
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Topics: Busyness, Separation, Adult Children, Boundaries, Pornography, Intimacy, Schizophrenia, Divorce Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim shares the dangers of living a phrenetic life and what the Bible says about it. My 37yo son is separated from his wife who has Cushing’s Syndrome, and he told me…
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Topics: Compassion Fatigue, Sexual Integrity, Siblings, Estrangement, Father Issues, Physical Abuse Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill Hubbard discusses compassion fatigue. What do we do about our 95yo dad regularly kissing a married woman in the church parking lot? I lost my parents and have one sibling…
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In this episode, Scott continues the study of Romans, focusing on worship as described in both the Old and New Testaments. Scott emphasizes how worship, according to Scripture, is both a physical and spiritual response to God's sovereignty and graciousness. He links the act of worship to reverence, obedience, sacrifice, faith, and submission to God…
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Topics: Social Media, Teens, Adult Children, Finances, Drug Addiction, Reconciliation, Boundaries Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice discusses the connection between social media and teens being lonely or suicidal. How can I approach my 18yo son about responsible credit card use? I struggled with …
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Topics: Counseling, Full Disclosure, Aging Parents, Dementia, End of Life, Affairs, Group Dynamics Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: JJ discusses how to find the right counselor. My 79yo husband with dementia made his son power of attorney years ago, and I want our 29yo daughter to have power of attorney instead…
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Topics: Christian Walk, Connection, Adult Children, Grandparenting, Estrangement, ADD, Medication, Psychedelics, Affairs Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jacqui shares from Romans why we should lean into the relational aspects of who God is, rather than the rules. My daughter asked me not to …
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Topics: Disaster, Adult Children, Parenting, Verbal Abuse, Dating Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill shares her thoughts on what to do when disaster strikes. My 19yo son is in college studying psychology and has become hateful in his speech toward his mother; how do I deal with him? My wife said s…
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Topics: Sexual Integrity, Respect, Asperger’s, Dementia, Transgender, Adult Children, Pleasers, Vacillators, Social Media Addiction Hosts: Brian Perez, Marc Cameron, JJ West Caller Questions & More: JJ shares insight about isolation from the Every Man’s Battle intensive in Atlanta. My husband of 35yrs can’t hold a job, might be on the Asperger’s sp…
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In this episode, Scott walks listeners through the opening chapter of Romans, offering insights into the character and nature of God. He reminds us about the inherent righteousness and justice at the foundation of God's throne, and how this contrasts with human unrighteousness. By dissecting the text, Scott explores the reasons behind the current s…
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Topics: Trauma, Borderline, Jealousy, Anxiety, Boundaries, Divorce, Grief, Ministry Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions & More: Dr. Sheri discusses how vicarious trauma impacts us emotionally and relationally. I have borderline personality disorder and am extremely jealous and anxious so that I don’t even w…
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Topics: Career, Christian Walk, Adult Children, In-laws, Forgiveness, Sexual Abuse, Childhood Trauma Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions & More: Chris discusses a life lesson from Ecclesiastes: Is your life built around your career or vice versa? Is it too late to do anything about our 28yo adult son who lives in o…
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Topics: Communication, Parenting, Ministry, Counseling, Teens, Transgender, Anxiety, Depression, OCD, Medications Hosts: Brian Perez, Marc Cameron, JJ West Caller Questions & More: Marc shares his thoughts on the art of listening. My 10yo grandson is very bright and kind, but he just sits in class and doesn’t do any work. How can I help a young cou…
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She Needs a Relapse Plan, Too with Lyschel Burket
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51:13No one wants to prepare for a storm or consider the necessary steps to get to safety. Yet most would say they have a fire escape plan in their home for such an emergency. Most couples solely rely on the betraying partner’s relapse plan to find stabilization and repair. In the interview with Lyschel Burket, she invites betrayed partners to consider …
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Navigating Consent After Betrayal with Alana Gordon
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49:32In this conversation, Jake Porter and Alana Gordon delve into the complex topic of consent, particularly in the context of betrayal trauma and sexual addiction. They explore the foundational aspects of consent, its importance in healthy relationships, and the challenges faced by individuals in understanding and practicing it. The discussion emphasi…
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Scott continues his study of Matthew, exploring the profound concept of spiritual sanctification. He discusses that while believers are saved by grace, they continually battle sin and need daily practices such as confession and repentance. Scott also talks about the values of the world with the virtues encouraged in Christianity, such as gentleness…
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In this episode, Scott continues the discussion about Matthew, starting with the significant contrasts between the Old and New Testaments, focusing on how Jesus' teachings in the Sermon on the Mount shift the approach from law to grace. Scott emphasizes hearing and acting upon Jesus' words, linking this practice to true happiness and joy. Through t…
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Betrayal Happens to Men Too: with Adam Nisenson
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45:47Adam Nisenson, known as the Betrayal Shrink, combines his extensive clinical skills with a deeply empathetic heart in his role as a Betrayal Trauma Coach. Licensed as a Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Adam is dedicated to guiding men through the complex emotions and challenges of betrayal trauma. His methodology…
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In this episode, Scott continues to take us on the journey of Matthew as he begins by sharing a personal story of significant financial and professional challenges over the past 27 years. Scott and his wife left a stable job to start a financial planning business, encountered large debt after a partnership split, and faced various external challeng…
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Scott continues the discussion on Romans, focusing on the themes of divine judgment, human idolatry, and the power of the gospel. Scott discusses the importance of daily gratitude for salvation, reminding listeners of their transition from being under God's wrath to becoming heirs to His glory. He advocates for a shift in mindset from dwelling on w…
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Healing a relationship that is impacting by addiction, adultery, and betrayal requires hope. Many couples find themselves feeling hopeless after discovery and struggle to imagining having hope again. Hope is an anchor that keeps us grounded in our values and reality. This empowering discussion will offer tools on how to cultivate hope and build str…
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Scott continues the study on Romans, offering an intriguing analogy between the ocean and God's word, illustrating how our understanding evolves and deepens over time. He emphasizes the importance of approaching scripture with a fresh perspective, setting aside preconceived notions to uncover deeper truths. In exploring the depths of Romans 1:18, S…
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Finding my true identity after betrayal | with Cat Etherington
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53:52Cat Etherington is the Director of Recovery for Naked Truth Project, an international ministry opening eyes and freeing lives from the damaging impacts of pornography and other problematic sexual behaviors. Cat is a certified professional life coach and integrative therapist, working with individuals and couples impacted by problematic sexual behav…
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In this episode, Scott continues the study of Romans, exploring God's command to Jeremiah, urging us not to underestimate ourselves by asserting, "I can't do that." He discusses the foundational elements of the gospel, focusing on Christ crucified and its role in revealing God's righteousness. Scott also discusses the need for mutual encouragement …
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In today's episode, Scott continues the discussion of Romans and discusses overcoming feelings of unworthiness and common misconceptions about prayer. He helps unravel the complexities of divine sovereignty and the real essence of prayer, moving beyond the idea of instant results to a more profound spiritual practice. Scott shares candid personal e…
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Double Abuse: Understanding the Hidden Pain of Relational Betrayal | Part 2 of 2
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39:10In this episode of *Betrayal Recovery Radio*, Dr. Jake Porter hosts a discussion with Pam Blizzard and Steph Farnsworth, exploring the complex layers of relational abuse within the context of betrayal trauma. They define relational abuse as a covert, disempowering experience, highlighting how behaviors like gaslighting and manipulation compound the…
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Scott begins the study of Romans by discussing the profound concept of allegiance, emphasizing the call to spiritual surrender and daily dedication as a bond servant to Jesus Christ. He then explores themes like true worship, living as a 'living sacrifice,' and the futility of worrying beyond our control, relying instead on God's sovereignty. Scott…
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Double Abuse: Understanding the Hidden Pain of Relational Betrayal | Part 1 of 2
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38:00In this episode of *Betrayal Recovery Radio*, Dr. Jake Porter hosts a discussion with Pam Blizzard and Steph Farnsworth, exploring the complex layers of relational abuse within the context of betrayal trauma. They define relational abuse as a covert, disempowering experience, highlighting how behaviors like gaslighting and manipulation compound the…
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Scott continues the discussion of Matthew as he addresses the concept of being unremarkable disciples, talking about the importance of trusting in Jesus to empower us despite our human flaws. Through stories like his encounter with a Russian soldier who felt unforgivable and the miraculous healing of his sister, Scott illustrates that Jesus' sacrif…
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Intensive Treatment for Betrayal Trauma with Aarti Chidambaram
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47:35In recent years, the demand for "intensive treatment" has increased, as more and more betrayed partners seem methods of accelerating their healing process. Though relatively new to the field of professional counseling and coaching, intensives have become keystone elements of some individuals' recovery journeys. In this episode, Dr. Jake is joined b…
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Matthew 27 WeightOfGlory (#103.2024.10.20)
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51:01Scott continues the book of Matthew through concepts of promises made to Christ and the deeper meanings behind our spiritual longings and desires. The discussion opens with a look at promises beyond the initial commitment to Christ and raises thought-provoking questions about the sufficiency of heaven without Him. They discuss the significance of G…
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