Welcome to the podcast of uncommon conversations about love. Hosted by love coach, TED speaker and author of the upcoming book, HOW TO FIND TRUE LOVE, Francesca Hogi (@dearfranny). Expect to see love and dating from a brand new perspective.
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Beauty at Work expands our understanding of beauty: what it is, how it works, and why it matters. Sociologist Brandon Vaidyanathan interviews scientists, artists, entrepreneurs, and leaders across diverse fields to reveal new insights into how beauty shapes our brains, behaviors, organizations, and societies--for good and for ill. Learn how to harness the power of beauty in your life and work, while avoiding its pitfalls.
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Yearning for True Love with Francesca Hogi (Part 1 of 2)
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40:59Send us a text How do you find true love—within yourself and in your relationships? In this Valentine’s Day episode, we’re joined by Francesca Hogi, a love coach, TED speaker, and host of the Dear Franny Podcast. Francesca’s journey from corporate lawyer to internationally recognized dating and relationships expert is nothing short of inspiring. Wi…
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Ep #140 A More Loving Valentine’s Day to Us All
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20:18In this episode of the Dear Franny podcast, Francesca reflects on the complexities of Valentine's Day and the emotional challenges it can bring. She also talks about the grief associated with letting go of old patterns and the courage required to take your love life to the next level. It’s not always easy, but you are worth it! Join the True Love C…
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Ep #139 “If people looked out for their friends, I wouldn’t have a job”
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17:46Inspired by a memorable quote from a matchmaker that’s stuck with her for over a decade, Francesca discusses the importance of us looking out for each other romantically speaking. In this episode, she encourages us to take care of ourselves and each other by embracing a more collective approach to dating, moving away from the isolating nature of mo…
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Yearning for Healing with Deepa Patel and Dr. Angel Acosta (part 2 of 2)
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28:16Send us a text How do we foster healing in communities impacted by trauma? And how can leaders and educators adopt a healing-centered approach to their work? In this episode, we’re joined by Deepa Gulrukh Patel, a creative facilitator blending arts, sciences, and social justice. Her work spans refugee camps, cultural diversity, bereavement support,…
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Do you know your love assignment? We are all being called to become more loving, but do you know what that actually means for you right now? This is a can’t-miss episode for anyone looking to move past confusion and who’s ready to graduate to the next chapter of your love journey. Pre-order Franny’s book! Join Franny and the True Love Society commu…
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Yearning for Healing with Deepa Patel and Dr. Angel Acosta (part 1 of 2)
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34:04Send us a text How do we foster healing in communities impacted by trauma? And how can leaders and educators adopt a healing-centered approach to their work? In this episode, we’re joined by Deepa Gulrukh Patel, a creative facilitator blending arts, sciences, and social justice. Her work spans refugee camps, cultural diversity, bereavement support,…
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Ep #137 The Power of Your Dreams w/ Angela Stalcup
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1:00:07Have you ever experienced a powerful dream? Have you ever had an insight or an experience in a dream that helped you in your waking life? This episode is a replay of a True Love Society conversation Francesca had with her friend and dream mentor, Angela Stalcup, on the significance of dreams and the practice of dream incubation. Angela breaks down …
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Barriers to Cosmic Connection with Dr. Galen Watts (Part 7 of Symposium on Spiritual Yearning in a Disenchanted Age)
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16:32Send us a text What are the barriers to pursuing our spiritual yearnings in a disenchanted age? Dr. Galen Watts addresses this question in this final presentation from our international symposium held at McGill University in November 2024. Galen is an Assistant Professor in the Department of Sociology and Legal Studies at the University of Waterloo…
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Ep #136 How to Prepare For Love This Year
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19:04In this episode, Francesca reflects on her connection to Los Angeles amidst recent challenges, announces her upcoming book, and shares insights on setting intentions for romantic love in 2025. She emphasizes the importance of self-reflection, compassion, and community support while discussing the evolving dating culture and the potential for positi…
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Ecology and Agency with Dr. William Barbieri (Part 6 of Symposium on Spiritual Yearning in a Disenchanted Age)
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16:51Send us a text This episode is the sixth presentation in our series from the international symposium on Spiritual Yearning in a Disenchanted Age. Dr. William Barbieri teaches in the Religion and Culture and Moral Theology/Ethics programs in the School of Theology and Religious Studies and directs the Peace and Justice Studies Program at The Catholi…
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The Lost Word with Dr. Tara Isabella Burton (Part 5 of Symposium on Spiritual Yearning in a Disenchanted Age)
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16:01Send us a text The Lost Word: Magic, Reality-Creation, and the Pursuit of God’s Language This is the fifth presentation from our international symposium on Spiritual Yearning in a Disenchanted Age, held at McGill University in November 2024. Dr. Tara Isabella Burton is the author of the novels Social Creature, The World Cannot Give, and Here in Ava…
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Ep #135 SPECIAL EPISODE “I’ve Gotten So Good At Being Alone” 1:1 w/ Elle
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1:07:58In this conversation, Francesca Hogi and Elle J. discuss the challenges and realizations that come with approaching milestone birthdays, particularly focusing on relationships, self-worth, and the importance of connection. Elle shares her journey of seeking a committed relationship after years of prioritizing her career, the impact of COVID on her …
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Spiritual Yearning in Science with Dr. Brandon Vaidyanathan (Part 4 of Symposium on Spiritual Yearning in a Disenchanted Age)
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36:15Send us a text Is science a path to cosmic connection? In this fourth episode of our series from the November 2024 symposium on Spiritual Yearning in a Disenchanted Age held at McGill University, I share results of an ongoing study on Meaning and Mystery in Science, which explores the spiritual experiences of non-religious scientists, and how the p…
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Science as Enchantment with Dr. Rob Gilbert (Part 3 of Symposium on Spiritual Yearning in a Disenchanted Age)
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26:55Send us a text In this presentation, Prof. Robert Gilbert, Professor of Biophysics in the Nuffield Department of Medicine at the University of Oxford, explain how science, for the scientist, is a source of enchantment. Prof. Gilbert and his team work on molecular mechanisms underlying pathology in humans, specifically cancer and membrane pore forma…
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Imagination and Insight with Dr. Naomi Fisher (Part 2 of Symposium on Spiritual Yearning in a Disenchanted Age)
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12:43Send us a text Naomi Fisher is Associate Professor of Philosophy at Loyola University Chicago. She earned her Ph.D in philosophy from the University of Notre Dame in 2016, and prior to that earned her M.S. in physics from UC Davis. Her research focuses on Kant and German Idealism and Romanticism, specifically the relationship between nature, freedo…
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Cosmic Connections with Dr. Charles Taylor (Part 1 of Symposium on Spiritual Yearning in a Disenchanted Age)
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35:33Send us a text This episode is the first of a series of presentations from an International Symposium on “Spiritual Yearning in a Disenchanted Age” held at McGill University in Montreal in November 2024. In this first episode, Dr. Charles Taylor, Professor Emeritus of Philosophy at McGill University, shares the motivations and long history behind h…
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Yearning for Wisdom with Dr. Francis Collins (Part 2 of 2)
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32:23Send us a text This episode is the second part of my conversation with Dr. Francis Collins, a pioneer physician-scientist who led the Human Genome Project and has been director of the National Institutes of Health during the tenures of three U.S. presidents. Dr. Collins shares insights from his impressive career: from the discovery of genes linked …
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Ep #134 The Astrology Advantage with AstroTwins Ophira and Tali Edut
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52:37Special guests alert! In this engaging conversation, Francesca is joined by the AstroTwins, Ophira and Tali Edut, about their journey into astrology, their breakthrough IAM system, and how astrology can be a valuable tool for personal development and understanding relationships. Be sure to check out their new books, The Astrology Advantage and thei…
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Yearning for Wisdom with Dr. Francis Collins (Part 1 of 2)
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34:25Send us a text Can science, beauty, and faith converge in our quest for truth? Joining us to discuss this topic is Dr. Francis Collins: a pioneer physician-scientist who led the Human Genome Project and has been director of the National Institutes of Health during the tenures of three U.S. presidents. Dr. Collins shares insights from his impressive…
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Ep #133 *SPECIAL EPISODE* “I never assume anyone is vaguely interested in me”
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49:20This week Francesca coaches Mary through her personal narratives surrounding her attractivenss, her ability to meet someone, and the impact of societal standards on her confidence and relationships. Mary opens up about her experiences with trauma, the challenges of navigating the dating culture, and her journey towards self-acceptance. Apply to be …
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Yearning For Meaning with Dr. Daryl Van Tongeren and Dr. David McPherson (Part 2 of 2)
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35:21Send us a text Human beings are meaning-seeking creatures. This search is at the heart of religions all around the world. Over the past century or so, however, religion, especially in the West, has been in decline, and many commentators have marked the rise of the “nones” and “dones”--those who have no religious affiliation and those who have aband…
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In this episode of the Dear Franny podcast, Francesca Hogi reflects on her previous conversation with Tyler, focusing on the theme of honest communication in relationships. She emphasizes the importance of expressing one's needs and goals, particularly in the context of dating. Francesca encourages listeners to confront their fears and the potentia…
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Yearning For Meaning with Dr. Daryl Van Tongeren and Dr. David McPherson (Part 1 of 2)
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35:33Send us a text Human beings are meaning-seeking creatures. This search is at the heart of religions all around the world. Over the past century or so, however, religion, especially in the West, has been in decline, and many commentators have marked the rise of the “nones” and “dones”--those who have no religious affiliation and those who have aband…
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Yearning for Understanding with Dr. Robert Lawrence Kuhn (Part 2 of 2)
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46:19Send us a text This episode is the second part of the conversation between Brandon Vaidyanathan and Robert Lawrence Kuhn. Dr. Robert Lawrence Kuhn is the creator, writer, host and executive producer of Closer To Truth, the long-running PBS/public television series and leading global resource on Cosmos (cosmology/physics, philosophy of science), Lif…
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Ep #131 *SPECIAL EPISODE* “I’ve had to be more vulnerable in saying what I need”
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47:56In this special one-time session, Tyler shares with Franny his journey of navigating self-esteem issues that have impacted his love life. He discusses a new, powerful romantic connection he has formed and his uncertainty about its future.The conversation explores the dynamics of his relationship, including the challenges of non-monogamy and the des…
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Yearning for Understanding with Dr. Robert Lawrence Kuhn (Part 1 of 2)
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39:11Send us a text What does it look like to live a life in pursuit of understanding? Our guest today exemplifies this quest across a wide range of domains. Dr. Robert Lawrence Kuhn is the creator, writer, host and executive producer of Closer To Truth, the long-running PBS/public television series and leading global resource on Cosmos (cosmology/physi…
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In this episode, Francesca explores the themes of self-worth, vulnerability, and relationship dynamics. Elaborating on some of the themes from last week’s 1-on-1 coaching with Allison in Episode 129, she emphasizes the importance of recognizing one's own value, choosing the right partners, and being aware of the patterns we normalize in our relatio…
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Yearning for Certainty with Maggie Jackson (Part 2 of 2 )
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40:08Send us a text Maggie Jackson is an award-winning author and journalist with a global reach. Her new book, Uncertain: The Wisdom and Wonder of Being Unsure, explores why we should seek not-knowing in this era of angst and flux. Nominated for a National Book Award and named to multiple “Best Books of 2023” lists, Uncertain is an official selection o…
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Ep #129 *SPECIAL EPISODE* “You Always Mattered” 1:1 Session w/ Allison
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43:31In this special episode, we get a front row seat to a 1-on-1 love coaching session with Franny. Allison joins the show to seek help with her dating challenges, self-perception, and emotional growth. Allison candidly opens up about patterns of abandonment she’s struggled with and her desire for a healthier, more balanced romantic relationship. Liste…
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Ep #128 Are You An Avoider, Looper, Surfer, or Sailor?
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30:18In this episode, Francesca Hogi dives into the ups and downs of navigating life’s transitions, especially when it comes to dating and relationships. Ever wonder why you’re stuck in the same dating patterns or can’t quite connect the way you want? Francesca introduces four relatable dating archetypes—Avoider, Looper, Surfer, and Sailor—designed to h…
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Yearning for Certainty with Maggie Jackson (Part 1 of 2 )
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28:10Send us a text Maggie Jackson is an award-winning author and journalist with a global reach. Her new book, Uncertain: The Wisdom and Wonder of Being Unsure, explores why we should seek not-knowing in this era of angst and flux. Nominated for a National Book Award and named to multiple “Best Books of 2023” lists, Uncertain is an official selection o…
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Art and Yearning with Dr. Daniel McInerny (Part 2 of 2)
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32:51Send us a text Daniel McInerny is associate professor and chair of the philosophy department at Christendom College in Front Royal, Virginia. He is also a novelist and dramatist. As a scholar, Daniel is foremost interested in reactivating an Aristotelian understanding of mimetic art, long out of favor among philosophers. His latest book is Beauty a…
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Ep #127 Following Your Intuition and a Higher Approach to Love
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24:33In this episode, Francesca Hogi discusses her upcoming book 'How to Find True Love' and emphasizes the importance of the four dimensions of love she discusses in the book — mindset, heartset, soulset, and skillset. She critiques the oversimplified dating rules of the past and advocates for a more holistic approach to relationships that includes sel…
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Art and Yearning with Dr. Daniel McInerny (Part 1 of 2)
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34:16Send us a text How is art relevant to our yearning for flourishing? In this episode, I interview philosopher Daniel McInerny about his new book, Beauty and Imitation. Dr. Daniel McInerny is associate professor and chair of the philosophy department at Christendom College in Front Royal, Virginia. He is also a novelist and dramatist. As a scholar, D…
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Ep #126 Does Everyone Get a Chance at True Love?
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19:33In this episode, Francesca Hogi explores the concept of true love, challenging the notion that it is a rare occurrence reserved for the lucky few. She emphasizes that true love is not just about finding 'the one' but about cultivating a relationship with essential qualities such as respect, emotional intimacy, and joy. Francesca discusses the impor…
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Yearning for Transcendence with Dr. Alan Lightman (Part 2 of 2)
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28:55Send us a text In this episode, sociologist Brandon Vaidyanathan interviews MIT Physicist Dr. Alan Lightman about his spiritual materialism. Alan Lightman is an American physicist, writer, and social entrepreneur. He holds a PhD in physics from Caltech. He has served on the faculties of Harvard and the Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT) an…
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Ep #125 How to Break Out of Your Dating Rut
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25:10In this episode, Francesca Hogi gets listeners thinking about their love lives with a focus on self-compassion and curiosity. She highlights how important it is to break old habits and make room for new possibilities. Francesca also dives into how life changes can affect dating and why creating personal space is key for building romantic connection…
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Yearning for Transcendence with Dr. Alan Lightman (Part 1 of 2)
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26:38Send us a text In this episode, sociologist Brandon Vaidyanathan interviews MIT Physicist Dr. Alan Lightman about his spiritual materialism. Alan Lightman is an American physicist, writer, and social entrepreneur. He holds a PhD in physics from Caltech. He has served on the faculties of Harvard and the Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT) an…
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Ep #124 How to Make Dating Apps Work For You
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28:44In this episode of the Dear Franny podcast, Francesca Hogi dives into the ups and downs of dating apps, stressing the importance of being intentional and staying true to yourself when navigating the online dating world. She talks about how dating apps have evolved, their pros and cons, and shares practical tips to help you build a standout profile …
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Yearning for wholeness with Elizabeth Oldfield (Part 2 of 2)
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23:16Send us a text Elizabeth Oldfield is the author of Fully Alive: Tending to the Soul in Turbulent Times. She has spent her career trying to lever open space for deeper conversations - about what it means to be a human being, where we can find wisdom and how we build a society where we hate each other a little less. She has worked at BBC Radio 4, led…
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Join us in this episode as Francesca takes us on her inspiring journey into love coaching. She talks about the spiritual nature of love and the power of self-love to empower us to take charge of our love lives. She shares practical advice on using self-awareness and intuition in dating, and why centering love in all aspects of life is key. Whether …
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Yearning for wholeness with Elizabeth Oldfield (Part 1 of 2)
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22:10Send us a text Elizabeth Oldfield is the author of Fully Alive: Tending to the Soul in Turbulent Times. She has spent her career trying to lever open space for deeper conversations - about what it means to be a human being, where we can find wisdom and how we build a society where we hate each other a little less. She has worked at BBC Radio 4, led…
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In this episode, Franny continues last episode’s conversation about keeping it real when it comes to dating. She breaks down the three levels of authenticity: knowing yourself, owning your true personality, and making sure your actions line up with who you really are. Franny also points out that being genuine isn’t just key to finding the right par…
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Longing for Integration with Andy Youniss (Part 2 of 2)
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27:15Send us a text This is the second part of our conversation with Andy Youniss, founder and former President and CEO of Rocket Software. Youniss has been the guiding force behind Rocket’s innovation, acquisitions, partnerships, strategy, culture, and values since the company launched in 1990. Today, Rocket serves a diverse customer community all arou…
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Hey everyone! Welcome back to season six of the Dear Franny Podcast! 🎉 I’m Franny, and I’m super excited to kick off this new season with you all. Today, I’m diving into my journey of writing my first book, ‘How to Find True Love,’ and I’ve got some juicy insights to share. We’re chatting about why being your authentic self is a game-changer in dat…
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Longing for Integration with Andy Youniss (Part 1 of 2)
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24:50Send us a text In this episode, sociologist Brandon Vaidyanathan interviews Andy Youniss, founder and former President and CEO of Rocket Software. Andy has been the guiding force behind Rocket’s innovation, acquisitions, partnerships, strategy, culture, and values since the company launched in 1990. Today, Rocket serves a diverse customer community…
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Longing for Belonging - with Ron Ivey and Monika Jiang (Part 2 of 2)
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32:56Send us a text This episode is a conversation with two experts combating our current loneliness crisis: Ron Ivey and Monika Jiang. Ron Ivey is a writer, researcher, and strategic advisor to business, governments, and philanthropies with a focus on social trust, belonging, and human flourishing. Ron is currently the Managing Director of the Humanity…
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Longing for Belonging - with Ron Ivey and Monika Jiang (Part 1 of 2)
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39:56Send us a text Sociologist Brandon Vaidyanathan talks to two experts combating our current loneliness crisis: Ron Ivey and Monika Jiang. Ron Ivey is a writer, researcher, and strategic advisor to business, governments, and philanthropies with a focus on social trust, belonging, and human flourishing. Ron is currently the Managing Director of the Hu…
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Connecting Earth and Sky with Dr. Nalini Nadkarni (Part 2 of 2)
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29:57Send us a text Nalini Nadkarni’s unique academic career interweaves her scientific research on rainforest canopy biota with innovative public engagement. She has written 150 scientific papers and books on the composition and ecological roles of canopy-dwelling communities, supported by the National Science Foundation and the National Geographic Soc…
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Connecting Earth and Sky with Dr. Nalini Nadkarni (Part 1 of 2)
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34:21Send us a text Nalini Nadkarni’s unique academic career interweaves her scientific research on rainforest canopy biota with innovative public engagement. She has written 150 scientific papers and books on the composition and ecological roles of canopy-dwelling communities, supported by the National Science Foundation and the National Geographic Soc…
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